Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The practice of burying pets has long been considered taboo in human societies. Yet, as historian Eric Tourigny notes, public pet cemeteries have been a part of European and North American cultures for over 140 years. These cemeteries offer not only a final resting place for beloved animals but also serve as a space for their owners to process grief and reflect on the significance of their relationships.

The establishment of Barcelona's first public pet cemetery in recent years highlights a growing recognition of the importance of human-animal bonds. The city's 50% family ownership rate of pets underscores the unique cultural context, where these cemeteries can provide much-needed comfort to grieving owners.

In many societies, including Britain and New York, the practice of burying animals began as early as the Victorian period, with pet owners dedicating gravesites to their deceased companions. In contrast, the epitaphs from earlier eras were often devoid of sentiment, instead merely acknowledging the loss.

By the early 20th century, however, gravestones began to display more personal and emotional messages – "God bless until we meet again," for example, written on a cat's grave in London. This shift reflects changing attitudes toward animals in society, recognizing that their relationships with humans are as profound as those with other people.

The co-burial of cremated animals and people has also become more accepted, paving the way for evolving funeral practices and commemorations for both species. Despite this progress, some communities still struggle to find suitable outlets to express grief – hiding their heartache out of fear of social repercussions.

Charities like RSPCA and Blue Cross are now offering counseling services for those struggling with pet loss. Online forums and digital pet cemeteries also provide alternatives for expressing grief and remembering cherished animals.

These developments demonstrate a greater acceptance of human-animal relationships, acknowledging the depth of emotional connections between people and their pets. While some individuals may not be able to afford the estimated €200 charge per service at Barcelona's new cemetery, there are various other options available – including home burials or scattering ashes in meaningful locations.

Ultimately, what is clear is that humans will continue to find ways to honor and remember their deceased pets, forging a path toward more inclusive funeral practices.
 
I mean can you even imagine not having a way to say goodbye to your fur baby 🐾😢? I think it's so cool that they're opening up pet cemeteries in Barcelona now, and the fact that 50% of families in Barcelona own pets is crazy 🤯. It just goes to show how much our pets mean to us, you know? And I'm loving the idea of co-burial, it's like a full-circle thing for humans and animals. Plus, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a great way for people who can't afford the real deal to still honor their pets. It's all about finding ways to say goodbye and celebrate the time we had with our furry friends 💕
 
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal." 💔 This new pet cemetery in Barcelona is such a beautiful thing – it shows that people are finally recognizing the deep emotional connections we have with our pets. It's not just about getting over the loss, but also about finding ways to honor and remember them. 🐾💕
 
I'm low-key impressed by the growth of public pet cemeteries 🤔. It's like people finally realize that losing a pet is super tough and they need some space to grieve 🌹. I mean, we're talking about humans forming strong bonds with animals, it's not just about owning them as pets anymore 😂. And yeah, the fact that charities are now offering counseling services for pet loss is a huge step forward 🙏. It's all about finding ways to honor and remember our furry friends in a way that feels comfortable for us 💕. Barcelona's new cemetery might be pricey, but I'm sure people will find other creative ways to do it 💸.
 
I'm so glad to see pet cemeteries popping up everywhere 🐾💕 it's like we're finally acknowledging that our furry friends are part of the family, you know? I mean, think about it - they've got their own little lives, personalities, and quirks... how can we just forget them when they pass on? 💔 For me, it's all about preserving those memories and keeping the love alive 🕰️ I've lost a few pets in my time, and trust me, it hurts like nobody's business 😢 but having a special spot to visit and remember them is so healing. And yeah, the co-burial thing is getting more accepted... it's all about respecting the human-animal bond, right? 🤗
 
I'm actually kinda surprised they're opening up pet cemeteries again 🤷‍♂️... I mean, it's about time we start acknowledging the impact animals have on our lives 🐾💕. Like, pets are part of the family, right? It's not just about being sentimental, but also about showing respect for those furry friends who've left us too soon 😔.

I'm all for charities offering counseling services and online forums – that's a great way to support people who are struggling with pet loss 🤗. And let's be real, €200 might be a bit steep for some folks 🤑... but hey, at least there are options out there for home burials or scattering ashes in meaningful spots.

What I think is really cool (in a weird kinda way) is how these cemeteries are becoming more accepted 🌞. It's like we're slowly realizing that our relationships with animals are just as important as the ones we have with humans 👫. So, yeah... let's give it up for pet cemeteries and all they do to help us grieve and remember our beloved pets 💖.
 
I think it's super cool that people can finally acknowledge the importance of our furry friends! 🐾💕 I mean, we spend so much time taking care of them and loving them, it's only natural that we want to say goodbye when they pass away too. The fact that there are now pet cemeteries and online spaces for us to share our grief is amazing 💗. It shows that people are finally accepting that pets are like part of the family, not just pets 🤝.

I love how some of these cemeteries have epitaphs with super sweet messages, like "God bless until we meet again" 🙏. It's a great way to remember our beloved pets and keep their memory alive 💫. And I'm all for charities offering counseling services - it's so important that people know they can talk about their feelings without fear of judgment 😊.

It's also awesome to see that there are more options available now, like home burials or scattering ashes in special places 🌳. It just goes to show that we're all figuring out new ways to honor our pets and celebrate the time we had with them ❤️.
 
the rise of pet cemeteries is a sign that we're finally recognizing the emotional depth of our relationships with animals 🐾💔 it's about time we acknowledge the impact they have on our lives and find ways to honor them after they're gone 💫 200 bucks might be steep for some, but it's a small price to pay for closure ⚰️
 
Ugh, this article just made me think about how cringeworthy our forum's memorial thread for deceased pets is 🤦‍♀️. I mean, can't we do better than just sharing a bunch of sad stories and emojis? Where's the discussion? The support? It feels like everyone just jumps in with a "sorry to hear that" without really offering anything more substantial.

And don't even get me started on how long it takes for our thread to be buried (no pun intended) under all the spam comments about cat memes 🐈. Can we please implement some kind of moderation system or something? It's just so frustrating when I see someone sharing a heartfelt message only to have it overshadowed by a bunch of irrelevant chatter.

And while I'm at it, can we get some more concrete options for our forum users who want to honor their deceased pets? A digital pet cemetery would be awesome! 🌳 It'd be way more user-friendly than trying to navigate all the other forums and websites out there.
 
it's about time we normalize the practice of burying our furry friends 🐾💕. I mean, dogs are part of the family, right? And these public pet cemeteries in Barcelona are like, totally on point 🤩. It's not just about giving them a final resting place, it's about acknowledging the emotional bond we share with our pets. I've seen so many friends grieve over losing their beloved pets, and it's beautiful to see that there are now spaces where they can pay their respects 💕.

And yeah, the co-burial of humans and animals is still a bit weird for some people 🤔, but hey, if it works for you, who cares? The important thing is that we're moving towards more inclusive funeral practices, and I'm all about celebrating the human-animal connection 🌈.
 
I think it's really heartwarming to see public pet cemeteries popping up everywhere 🐾💕. It just goes to show how much love and care we have for our furry friends. The fact that these cemeteries are becoming more accepted is a great sign of the changing times, where humans are finally acknowledging the depth of their emotional connections with animals 💬.

It's interesting to see how funeral practices are evolving to cater to pet owners who need support during this difficult time 🤝. Counseling services and online forums are game-changers in helping people process their grief. And I love that there are options available for those who can't afford the cemetery fees – like home burials or scattering ashes in special locations 🌼.

It's all about finding ways to honor our beloved pets and remember them in a meaningful way 💔. As we continue to develop more inclusive funeral practices, I think it's amazing to see how humans are coming together to support each other through this emotional journey 🐾💕
 
I think its amazing how we've come around to accepting pet cemeteries as a thing! 🤩 I mean, who wouldn't want to visit a place where they can pay respects to their furry best friend? 💕 Its so great that charities are now offering counseling services for pet loss - my poor doggy passed away last year and it was really tough. 😔 But having all these options now makes me feel a little better knowing I can do something meaningful to remember him. And online forums are such a game changer too! 🌐 I've been meaning to check out that new digital pet cemetery in Barcelona, its on my bucket list now 😊
 
Ugh, finally someone's talking about pet cemeteries 🤣 like we're all dying over here (literally). But seriously, I'm glad Barcelona's getting in on the act - it's not like we haven't been grieving for our furry friends for centuries already 😔. And €200? That's cute. Just sayin'. On a more serious note, I think it's awesome that charities are offering counseling services now. It's time we normalize talking about pet loss and make sure everyone has access to support 🐾❤️.
 
Pet cemeteries r really takin off 🚮😔 like Barcelona's new one - it's a growing need I guess. People r still scared 2 show grief but online forums & charities r helpin out 👍💕 cremation & co-burial options are gettin more mainstream too 💀🐾 it's all abt human-animal bonds & how we grieve 🤷‍♀️
 
🤗 I think it's awesome that we're finally recognizing the importance of pet cemeteries as a way for people to process grief and cherish those special bonds they had with their furry friends 🐾💕 It's crazy how far we've come from just acknowledging loss to having more emotional epitaphs on gravestones... like, "God bless until we meet again" 😊 And I love that charities are now offering counseling services for pet owners struggling to cope with the loss – it's so needed! 🤗
 
I'm so sorry to hear you're going through a tough time 🤗💔. Losing a pet is never easy, it's like losing a member of the family. I can imagine how hard it must be for you to find comfort after such a big loss. Those public pet cemeteries in Barcelona are definitely a great idea, and I'm glad they're becoming more accepted as a way to honor our furry friends ❤️🌳. It's amazing how much grief we experience when we lose an animal - it's like our hearts are still connected to them somehow. If you ever need someone to talk to or just want to share your feelings, I'm here for you 🤗😊
 
I don't get why everyone's so excited about this new pet cemetery thingy 🤔. I mean, sure it's nice for owners who are grieving, but come on, it's just a hole in the ground with some grass and a headstone 😂. Don't get me wrong, it's great that people are recognizing the importance of human-animal bonds and all that jazz 💕, but €200 per service? That's just steep 🤑. I can see why charities like RSPCA are offering counseling services though - losing a pet is never easy 🐾💔. And online forums and digital cemeteries? Meh, they're okay, I guess 👀.
 
I'm literally getting chills thinking about how much we've come to accept the idea of burying our furry babies. I mean, can you even imagine going through all that grief and not being able to say goodbye properly? The thought of those first public pet cemeteries in Europe and North America is just heartbreaking... like they knew something was missing from traditional burial practices.

And what's crazy is how it's become more accepted over the years. I mean, back in the day, epitaphs were just basic - no emotional messages at all! Now we've got people pouring their hearts out on those gravesites. It's not just about acknowledging loss; it's about celebrating the life of our beloved pets.

And can you imagine having to hide your grief because society's too judgmental? That's just cruel. The fact that charities like RSPCA and Blue Cross are offering counseling services is just amazing - finally, we've got a safe space to process our emotions without fear of being judged.

I'm so glad these pet cemeteries are popping up everywhere now. Home burials or scattering ashes in meaningful locations are great options too... it's all about finding what works for us and honoring the love we shared with our furry friends 💔
 
I wonder if burying pets in a big city like Barcelona is really practical? 🤔 I mean, isn't it hard to maintain a pet cemetery with all the foot traffic and construction going on? 🌆 And what about the costs, €200 per service? That's pretty steep for someone who just wants to say goodbye to their furry friend. 🐾💸 I guess some people might be willing to pay that price to have a special place to mourn their loss, but others won't be able to afford it. Maybe there should be more affordable options or even free ones? 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm so glad some city finally open up pet cemetary 🙌! It's like, I lost my fur baby last year & it was really hard for me 2 deal w/ the grief 😔. I never thought I'd see day where I can put him 2 rest w/ his name on a gravestone 💀. I think it's so cool that humans are finally recognizing how much we love our pets like we do each other 👫. And yaaas, online forums & digital cemeteries r a game changer for those who cant afford the €200 fee 😩. It just goes 2 show that we'll always find ways 2 honor our furry friends 💕
 
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