Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The tradition of burying our pets may seem straightforward enough - after all, it's what people do with their human dead. But when it comes to our furry friends, things get more complicated.

Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology at Newcastle University, has spent years researching pet cemeteries and is surprised that Barcelona, a city where 50% of families own a pet, only recently announced plans for its first public pet cemetery. "How did a city that is home to 180,000 dogs not already have a public pet cemetery?" he wonders.

It turns out that the burial of pets was not always a taboo topic in Europe and North America. In fact, public pet cemeteries have been around since the late 19th century. Britain's first public pet cemetery appeared in London's Hyde Park in 1881, followed by New York's Hartsdale pet cemetery in 1896.

However, in modern times, the burial of pets has become a more complex issue. While some cities are now investing in public pet cemeteries, others may not have access to such facilities due to financial constraints. Online forums and digital pet cemeteries provide alternative ways for pet owners to commemorate their loved ones.

The connection between humans and animals is often just as strong as our relationships with other humans. Yet, expressing grief over the loss of a pet can be difficult, especially in societies where there are limited accepted ways to mourn animal losses. The lack of accessible outlets to express heartache has led many to hide their pain, fearing social repercussions.

However, times are changing. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling services for bereaved pet owners. The RSPCA reassures the public that there is no shame in grieving over the loss of a beloved animal.

As society becomes more accepting of the importance of human-animal relationships to our collective wellbeing, we are starting to follow rituals that resemble those we use to mourn the loss of our closest human relationships. This is reflected in the increasing number of pet cemeteries and digital pet memorials popping up around the world.

At an estimated cost of €200 ($217) per service at Barcelona's new cemetery, it's clear that this opportunity to grieve will not be financially available to everyone in the city. But for those who can afford it, the chance to bid farewell to their furry friends in a dignified and personalized manner is a welcome one.

Ultimately, whether one chooses a pet cemetery or not, there are many acceptable ways to express grief - and to remember our relationship with the important animals in our lives.
 
I feel kinda weird that ppl still have 2 pay 200 euros 4 a service 2 bury their pets...can't they just have public spaces 4 people 2 say goodbye 2 their fur babies? it's not like its gonna hurt anyone else 🤷‍♀️😔
 
I guess its kinda cool that Barcelona is finally getting around to building a public pet cemetery 🐾🤷‍♀️ I mean, 180,000 dogs and no public space for them to rest? That's like, basic animal welfare right there 😒. And €200 per service? Yeah, good luck to those who want to say goodbye without breaking the bank 💸. On a lighter note, digital pet cemeteries are actually kinda genius 🤖 - I mean, who needs a physical space when you can just Google your dead dog's name and be done with it?
 
I'm totally confused about why Barcelona took so long to set up a public pet cemetery 🤔🐶. Like, 50% of families have pets there and it's crazy that they didn't think of it sooner! I mean, who doesn't want to have a beautiful place to say goodbye to their furry friend? It makes total sense that online forums and digital pet cemeteries are also becoming popular options - not everyone can afford the €200 fee 💸. But at the same time, I get why people would want a real, in-person ceremony 🌼. My friends always talk about how hard it is to grieve when you lose a pet... it's like, you're still hurting just as much as if someone had passed away 🤕. It's nice that charities are offering counseling services and the RSPCA is reassuring people that there's no shame in grieving over pets too 😊.
 
I'm so down for public pet cemeteries! 🙌 It's crazy that Barcelona just announced one, considering how many dog owners they have. I mean, who wouldn't want a special place to say goodbye to their furry bestie? Online forums and digital pet memorials are cool too, but there's something so special about having a physical space to remember our pets.

It's also really interesting that humans and animals can form such strong bonds. Losing a pet is super tough, and I think it's great that charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center are offering support services for people who are grieving. 💕 And I love how society is starting to normalize pet loss - it's not just about hiding our feelings anymore! 🌈
 
I'm so sad that it took Barcelona this long to create a public pet cemetery 🐾😔 I mean, it's crazy that some cities don't have access to these facilities due to financial constraints, but at least there are online forums and digital pet cemeteries now for people to cope with their grief 💻. It's amazing how society is becoming more accepting of our human-animal relationships and wanting to create rituals to honor the loss of our pets 🌼. I think it's beautiful that charities like the Blue Cross are offering counseling services for pet owners who are struggling to deal with the loss 💕. And let's be real, having a personalized ceremony at a pet cemetery or creating a digital memorial is a great way to celebrate the life of your furry friend 🎉🐾
 
🐾 I think its kinda cool that cities like Barcelona are finally recognizing the importance of having public pet cemeteries... I mean, 50% of families own a pet, so it's about time we have some options for them to say goodbye properly! 🤔 But €200? That's steep. What about all the people who can't afford it? Online forums and digital pet memorials are definitely a step in the right direction, though. It's great that charities like the Blue Cross are offering counseling services to help people deal with their grief. I think its also awesome that we're starting to recognize how strong our bonds are with animals and how much they mean to us... it's not just about pets, its about our emotional wellbeing too 🐶💕
 
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