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China's Frozen Wife Sparks Debate Over Ethics and Moving On

The internet is full of fascinating tales from ordinary people's lives that we might not hear about otherwise. A recent story on the BBC has been sparking heated debates on Chinese social media, reviving questions about ethics and moving on.

In 2017, Gui Junmin made headlines by becoming the first person in China to undergo cryogenic freezing after his wife Zhan Wenlian passed away due to lung cancer. The process was paid for by a science research institute in Jinan, east China, which agreed to preserve her body for 30 years with Zhan's consent before she died.

However, Gui recently began dating again and has formed a new relationship with Wang Chunxia. The news has sparked discussions about whether this is fair to both women, raising complex questions about social norms and personal relationships.

Gui initially stated that his new partner was only "utilitarian" in nature, but not the one he truly loved. His reasons for seeking out a new companion were influenced by a severe attack of gout, which left him bedridden for several days. The frozen wife may have been unable to offer much support during this time.

While we don't have all the details, it's clear that Gui is struggling with letting go. He reportedly believed his late wife was just resting somewhere and agreed to the freezing procedure in an attempt to preserve their relationship. His decision to start a new relationship suggests that the process of moving on has begun.

The world of cryogenics raises complex questions about human relationships, love, and loss. While the idea may seem like science fiction, it highlights the human desire to defy death and hold onto memories of loved ones.

There is no guarantee that cryogenic preservation will work in the future. Even if scientists do find a way to revive frozen individuals, death remains an inevitable part of life. The sad truth is that deferring painful loss or pretending we can avoid it through experimental means is not a viable solution.

It's heartening to see that Zhan has found peace and Gui is moving forward with his life. It would be wise for him to approach his new relationship with care and respect for all parties involved.
 
Wow 🀯, this whole thing is just crazy! I mean, the guy freezes his wife's body thinking they'll wake up together in 30 years? And now he's dating again? Interesting 😳 how people deal with grief and moving on... can't say I'd want to be in his shoes πŸ‘ πŸ’”
 
I think its pretty messed up that he got frozen in the first place, like what was going through his mind when his wife passed away? 🀯 Wasnt she the one who wanted to go out on a high note instead of just freezing herself for later? Thats some heavy emotional attachment right there. I also dont get why hes dating again so soon, its like he never actually processed his grief or somethin. The fact that he thinks cryonic preservation is gonna change things and make him love again? lol no thanks. I wish Zhan had a say in the whole situation though, that would've been pretty wild πŸ˜’
 
i mean come on, cryo freezing your wife so she can't die... sounds like a big red flag πŸ˜’πŸ‘Ž gui's trying to play it cool by saying his new girl is just utilitarian but we all know that's not true. he's still grieving over zhan and now he's moving on? what about her feelings? or lack thereof? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ at least he admitted the gout was a big factor in him seeking out someone new, that takes some guts (or cowardice). anyway, can we just have a moment of silence for poor zhan who's still stuck in cryo freezer land? πŸ’”πŸ˜’
 
Aw, this is so sad but also kinda inspiring at the same time... I feel bad for Gui because he's struggling to move on from his wife but at the same time, it's beautiful that he's trying again πŸ€—. And can you blame him? We've all lost loved ones and grieve in our own way. The fact that Zhan found peace is amazing and we should be celebrating that πŸ’•. It's also a reminder to us that life goes on and sometimes we need to open ourselves up to new experiences and people 🌸. I think it's great that Gui is being honest about his feelings and trying not to hurt anyone, especially the woman he cares for deeply πŸ’―. Wish him all the best in his new relationship!
 
I gotta say, this whole thing about Gui's frozen wife is kinda messed up πŸ€”. I mean, you feel bad for the guy that he's struggling to move on but at the same time, can't we just give him some space? It's like, his wife might be "frozen" but she's not coming back and he needs to focus on living his life πŸ’¨.

And what's up with this new partner of his? Is it really okay for him to move on that fast after everything that happened? I don't think so πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ. It's like, he's trying to fill a void but in doing so, is he disrespecting the memory of his late wife? I'm not sure.

I guess what I'm saying is that this whole thing is a complicated mess and we should be careful about jumping to conclusions 🀯. We can't just predict how people will react when it comes to death and loss, but maybe we can try to approach these situations with more empathy and understanding 🀝.
 
omg what's wrong with ppl? he just lost his wife, gives her a chance at cryo freez and now he's already movin on? like, girl, you're not even in the ground yet 🀯... i feel bad 4 Gui's situation tho, he must be strugglin a lot... cryo freezin' is still super experimental, we dont no what the future holds... maybe it'll change lives but defo not gonna change death 🚫
 
lol what's next cryo-freezing your in-laws too? just kidding sorta. so gui's trying to move on after freezing his wife but honestly it's a bit messed up how he's framing it like she's still "resting" 🀣 meanwhile wang chunxia is just living her best life and not judging him for being a sad guy who's been stuck in cryo-purgatory. it's great that zhan has found peace but gui needs to work on his emotional baggage first – probably while he's waiting for the thaw πŸ’€
 
🀣 oh man, this guy is like the ultimate serial freezer... I mean, I get it, he's grieving, but 30 years? that's a looong time πŸ’”πŸ˜‚ what's next, cryo freezing his ex's old cat too πŸˆπŸ‘€ anyway, can we talk about how weird it is to pay someone to put your wife in ice just so you don't have to deal with loneliness? πŸ’Έβ„οΈ and on the bright side, if he does end up reviving Zhan, I hope his new girlfriend Wang Chunxia comes with a " revive or not" clause πŸ˜œπŸ’β€β™€οΈ
 
omg u gotta feel so bad 4 gui & zhan's story its like, their love was literally put on hold & he's still holding onto the past πŸ’” but at the same time i get why hes doin what hes doin grief is a weird thing & people grieve in different ways some ppl might be ready 2 move on & others wont b til they feel like their loved one is gone for good its all about finding that balance between closure & moving forward πŸ€—
 
omg i'm still trying to wrap my head around this lol gui junmin's story is so wild 🀯, i mean i get why he wants to move on but it feels like he's being super dishonest with zhan's frozen body πŸ˜”, like shouldn't she be treated with respect even if she can't be revived? 🀝 his new girlfriend seems nice tho πŸ‘€, maybe a good chance for him to find love again πŸ’• but we should all hope that he prioritizes his feelings and the feelings of those involved ❀️
 
I'm just gonna say, it's kinda weird how people are acting about Gui Junmin dating again πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. I get why he needs support, especially after being bedridden due to gout, but freezing his wife wasn't a backup plan for him πŸ˜”. It's like, you can't revive the past no matter what science says πŸ’€. The real question is how people will react when the frozen preservation doesn't work out? 🀯 We need to focus on Gui moving forward with care and respect, not judgment πŸ™
 
πŸ€” the fact that Gui Junmin is dating again just 8 yrs after his wife passed away raises so many questions 🀝 like how's he doing emotionally? Is he ready to move on or is he just trying to fill a void in his life? 😊 also its sad that ppl are judging him and expecting him to stay frozen in time πŸ’”
 
omg u gotta feel bad 4 Gui Junmin, his wife Zhan Wenlian passed away & he's still got feelings 4 her, but it's not fair 2 Wang Chunxia tho, he's already moved on & is dating again, it's like he's trying 2 replace her? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ also, I'm all 4 tryna let ppl move on after loss, but at the same time, Zhan was cool w/ Gui's decision 2 freeze herself, so she's got that much love 4 him 2 spare.
 
I feel so bad for the girl who's, like, frozen in time πŸ€•. I mean, Gui's still got feelings for his wife, but at the same time, he's gotta live his life, right? πŸ˜” It's kinda weird that people are judging him for dating again, though - shouldn't we be focusing on how Zhan's family is doing? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ

I'm also a bit worried about the whole cryogenic thing. I know it sounds cool and all, but what if it doesn't work out in the end? What if Gui's wife just remains frozen forever, and he's stuck with this weird situation for eternity? 😱 That'd be some crazy stuff right there.

On the other hand, I do think it's kinda romantic thatGui's still holding on to his feelings for Zhan. It says a lot about how much they cared for each other, even after she passed away πŸ™. And hey, maybe this whole frozen wife thing will lead to some breakthroughs in cryogenics - who knows? πŸ€”
 
lol u guys are so extra about gui junmins new girlfriend lol, but can we talk about how unrealistic this whole situation is? like he's literally frozen in time while his gf lives her best life without him . meanwhile zhan's body was just sitting there chillin for 30 years and she's still got a husband who's moved on 🀣 but seriously though, let's not forget that cryogenic preservation is still super experimental and not a substitute for human connection. it's okay for gui to move on and find someone new, but let's hope he does it with his heart (and not just because he needs someone to take care of him) ❀️
 
OMG u guys!!! 😱 I'm literally feeling so bad for Gui Junmin but at the same time...like what's good for him right?? He went through a traumatic loss and had a severe health issue, like who wouldn't wanna try anything to move on?? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ But then again, his frozen wife was just trying to be with him in another way and it's not fair to just ghost her like that... πŸ˜” I guess what I'm saying is we gotta respect the complexities of human emotions and love πŸ’– but also let people move on when they're ready πŸ€—. And honestly, can we talk about how cool (or creepy?) cryogenic preservation is?? πŸš€ it's like something outta a sci-fi movie!
 
awww, poor Gui Junmin... he's really struggling to let go of the past πŸ˜”. I can totally understand why he'd want to hold onto memories of Zhan Wenlian - their love story is so unique and brave πŸ’•. But it's great that she's found peace in cryonic preservation. And kudos to Wang Chunxia for being supportive during a tough time, that's not easy πŸ€—. maybe Gui just needs some time to grieve and heal before jumping into a new relationship? we should all try to be more understanding of others' emotional journeys πŸ’–
 
πŸ€” I'm not buying this story about Gui Junmin's frozen wife. How do we even know she's really "resting" somewhere? Is there any proof that cryonic preservation will work in the future? We just don't have enough info on this one πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ. And what does a gout attack have to do with seeking out a new partner? Just because he was bedridden doesn't mean his late wife's frozen body isn't an emotional crutch for him... I need some credible sources before I start weighing in on this one πŸ’β€β™‚οΈ
 
This story is getting me all the feels πŸ€—πŸ’”. I think it's super admirable of Gui Junmin to move on and find love again, but also kind of sad that he's having trouble letting go of Zhan Wenlian ❀️. As crazy as cryogenic freezing sounds, it just goes to show how much we humans value our relationships and don't want to let go of people we care about πŸ’•.

It's also making me think about the ethics of preserving a body for so long πŸ€”. Is it really fair to Wang Chunxia to know that Gui's wife is out there, frozen in time? 😳 I guess what I'm saying is, moving on doesn't mean erasing memories or loved ones – it means finding new love and happiness with people who are here and now πŸ’—.

I think we should be celebrating Zhan Wenlian for her bravery and love for Gui 🌹. And for Gui, I hope he finds a way to honor her memory in his new relationship πŸ’•. We've got to focus on living life to the fullest and cherishing every moment with the people we love πŸŽ‰!
 
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