There's no gold medal in the stress Olympics – here's how to start resting

The Unspoken Truth About Rest: Why You Need to Take a Break from Burnout

In our culture of relentless productivity, rest has become anathema - seen as a luxury for the lazy or weak. But what if this approach is not only ineffective but also detrimental to our overall well-being? According to experts like Amelia Nagoski and Dr. Saundra Dalton-Smith, rest is not just a nicety, it's a necessity.

"When we push ourselves too hard, we can't function at our highest level of capacity," warns Nagoski, co-author of Burnout: The Secret to Unlocking the Stress Cycle. "Rest is what helps us recover and recharge." Research backs this up - studies have shown that people who prioritize rest are more productive, creative, and overall happier.

But what does rest even look like? It's not just about taking a long nap or lounging on the couch all day. According to Alex Soojung-Kim Pang, author of Rest: Why You Get More Done When You Work Less, rest can be as active as it is passive. "Doing things that bring us joy and fulfillment can be incredibly restorative," he notes.

However, even with the best intentions, we often find ourselves stuck in a cycle of overwork and burnout. So what are some of the biggest obstacles to rest? For many of us, it's our cultural programming - we're conditioned to believe that success means sacrificing everything for the sake of work. This can lead to feelings of guilt or shame around taking time off.

Another major hurdle is knowing what kind of rest we need. According to Dalton-Smith, emotional rest is often just as important as physical rest. "We have an internal monologue that tells us when we're drained," she explains. "It's a subtle sensation, but it's there."

So how can you start prioritizing rest? It begins with taking control of your schedule and boundaries. Consider combining periods of focused work with regular breaks - whether that means going for a walk or having lunch. And don't be afraid to ask for help from loved ones or colleagues.

Perhaps most importantly, remember that rest is not selfish. In fact, it's essential to pushing back against the culture of overwork and burnout. As Nagoski notes, "if you try to stand alone, you're going to get washed away really fast." But when we surround ourselves with people who care about our well-being, we can all stand together - and that's where true resilience comes in.

In short, rest is not just a luxury - it's a necessity. By prioritizing our own needs and recognizing the value of rest, we can become more productive, creative, and overall happier humans. So take a deep breath, let go of the guilt or shame around taking time off, and start embracing the art of rest. Your body (and mind) will thank you.
 
🤯 I mean, have you ever felt like you're running on empty but still trying to keep up with everyone else? Like, we're all programmed to believe that putting in extra hours is what gets us ahead, but it's really just setting ourselves up for burnout 🚧. And yeah, rest isn't just about sleeping all day or being lazy, it's actually about doing things that bring you joy and fulfillment! 🌞 I think our culture needs a major shift when it comes to valuing rest and self-care. We need to start seeing it as a necessary part of being productive and creative, not something we can skip over because we're too busy 💡. It's all about finding that balance and taking control of your schedule and boundaries 📅. And honestly, rest is not selfish, it's essential for building resilience and standing together with others who care about our well-being 👫💖
 
omg u guys its literally about time we talk about rest 😂🛋️ like we cant just keep pushing ourselves 24/7 without any consequences 🤯 our bodies are meant to rest & recharge not just survive 🌱 i love how experts r saying rest is NOT a luxury but a necessity 💯 we need to stop feeling guilty or ashamed about taking time off from work 🙅‍♀️ it should be a norm! 📚 so let's make rest a priority 🕒️ prioritize our schedule & boundaries, take breaks, ask for help, & surround ourselves with people who care 💕
 
I feel like I've been living in this perpetual state of exhaustion for ages 😴. I used to think that staying up all night to finish a project was just what I needed to get it done, but honestly, it's just a recipe for burnout 🤯. Now that I'm learning more about the importance of rest, I realize how much time I wasted on overwork.

I love how Amelia Nagoski says rest is not selfish, it's essential 🙌. It's so true! When we prioritize our own well-being, we become way more productive and creative. And yeah, rest doesn't have to be just lounging around – doing things that bring us joy can be super rejuvenating 😊.

I think the hardest part for me was recognizing when I needed rest in the first place 🤔. It's easy to get caught up in the cycle of overwork and forget to listen to our internal monologue 👂. But once you start paying attention, it's like a weight lifts off your shoulders 💨.

I'm making a conscious effort to prioritize my schedule now, setting aside time for rest and self-care 📅. And I'm not afraid to ask for help when I need it – it's so liberating to know that I can lean on loved ones or colleagues for support 🤝.
 
🤯 I'm literally burnt out after final exams just finished 📚💼 but reading this article is like, so refreshing 😌. We need to remember that it's okay to take a break and recharge before we start over again. Like, setting boundaries with our workload and prioritizing self-care is not lazy, it's necessary! 🙅‍♀️ I'm gonna make sure to schedule some relaxing activities into my planner, maybe even ask my friends if they want to join me for a Netflix binge-fest 📺👫
 
😊 Rest is super underrated man... I feel like we're always being pushed to be more productive and stuff, but what about actually taking care of ourselves? 🤯 I mean, think about it - when was the last time you just did nothing and saw where it took you? 🙅‍♂️ It's crazy how rest is seen as a luxury for the lazy or weak, but really it's just our bodies telling us we need a break. 💆‍♀️ Like, have you ever noticed that when you're feeling burnt out, you can't even think straight? 😴 That's your body's way of saying "hey, slow down!" 🚨

I'm not saying I never work hard or anything, but I've realized that taking time to relax and recharge is actually what helps me get more done in the long run. 💪 It's all about finding that balance, you know? ⏱️ Like, don't be afraid to take a nap during the day or something 🛋️ - your brain will thank you! 🙌 And, honestly, rest isn't just about lying on the couch all day (although, let's be real, that sounds amazing sometimes 😴). It can be as active as watching a movie or playing with kids... anything that brings you joy and fulfillment! 🎥👧
 
I'm so done with people pushing themselves to the limit all the time 🤯. Like we really need more proof that burnout is a thing? Newsflash: it's real and it's ruining our lives! Resting isn't lazy, it's necessary for us to recharge. I think we're all missing out on some serious productivity when we're running on fumes 😴. And honestly, taking time off doesn't mean you're not doing your job well. It means you're taking care of yourself and that's something we should all be encouraging each other on 💪.
 
I remember when my parents would tell me to "just relax" whenever I was stressed out 😒... like that was ever easy for them too? Now I'm reading about how we should prioritize rest because burnout is a thing 🤯 and it's actually necessary for productivity?! It just goes to show, what was once considered a luxury now needs to be seen as a necessity. But you know who doesn't need to be told this... my grandparents 😂. They'd take a nap whenever they wanted and still manage to whip up a mean dinner or finish their garden work without complaining. Maybe we should learn from them instead of trying to cram more into our schedules?
 
🤯 Rest is like, soooo important! We've been conditioned to think that taking breaks is just for lazy people, but really it's about refueling our batteries 💡. I mean, think about it - when was the last time you actually felt refreshed and rejuvenated? 😴 For me, it's all about finding that balance between work and play 🎮. Sometimes that means taking a long walk in nature 🌳 or practicing yoga 🧘‍♀️. It's not just about being idle; it's about doing things that bring you joy and fulfillment 🌈.

But let's be real, life can get crazy 😩 and we need to prioritize our own needs 🤝. So, how do we make time for rest when everything feels like an emergency? 💥 That's where setting boundaries comes in 🔒. We need to start saying no to things that drain us and yes to things that recharge us 🌱.

It's also super important to recognize the value of emotional rest ❤️. We're not just talking about physical exhaustion; we're talking about mental fatigue too 😓. So, how do we know what kind of rest we need? 🤔 That's a great question! I think it starts with listening to our internal monologue 🗣️ and paying attention to those subtle sensations when we're feeling drained 💔.

So, let's make rest cool again 🎉. Let's prioritize our own needs and recognize that taking time off is not selfish - it's essential 😌. We need to surround ourselves with people who care about our well-being and support each other in this journey 🤝.
 
I'm so done with the whole "work harder, live less" mentality 🤯. I mean, what's wrong with slowing down and enjoying life? We're constantly being told to push ourselves to the limit, but what if that's just a recipe for burnout? I've seen people sacrifice their mental health for the sake of work, and it's just not worth it 💔.

I think we need to start valuing rest as much as productivity. Like, taking a walk in nature or practicing yoga can be just as rejuvenating as binge-watching your favorite show 🌳💆‍♀️. And let's talk about emotional rest - that subtle feeling of being drained and needing a pick-me-up? Yeah, we need to listen to our bodies more 🤗.

It's time for us to rethink what it means to be successful and prioritize our well-being over productivity. When we take care of ourselves, we're actually more productive and creative in the long run 💡. So, let's make rest a non-negotiable part of our daily routine and ditch the guilt around taking time off 🙅‍♀️. Our minds and bodies will thank us! 😌
 
I'm so glad people are finally realizing that burnout is NOT just about being lazy 🤣... it's actually a sign that your brain and body are screaming "HEY, WE NEED A BREAK OVER HERE!"💼 Honestly, I've been saying this for years - rest isn't just for the laid-back types, it's for anyone who doesn't want to end up in a puddle of exhaustion. 🤦‍♀️ Like, who has time to be productive when you're constantly running on empty? Not me, that's for sure 😴... I'll take a nap whenever I feel like it and call it "research". 💤
 
🤯 Rest is like a battery that needs to be recharged, folks! I was stuck in this cycle of burnout for years, thinking I had to push through no matter what 🕒️. But once I started taking breaks and prioritizing rest, I felt like a new person 😌. It's not just about napping on the couch (although that sounds amazing right now 🛋️). It's about doing things that bring you joy, whether that's reading, hiking, or cooking 🍳.

I used to think rest was selfish, but now I realize it's essential for being productive and creative 💡. Our bodies are like cars - they need regular tune-ups (rest) to keep running smoothly 🚗. And yeah, it can be hard to break the cycle of overwork, especially when our culture encourages us to sacrifice everything for work 🤝.

But here's the thing: rest is not something you do alone 💖. It's about surrounding yourself with people who care about your well-being and taking control of your schedule 👥. So take a deep breath, let go of that guilt or shame, and start embracing the art of rest 😌. Your body (and mind) will thank you 🙏!
 
🤯 I mean, come on! We're living in a world where Netflix is basically just a tool for us to avoid adulting. Like, what's the point of working 12 hours a day if we can just binge-watch our favorite shows all night? 📺 It's time to rewire our minds around rest and self-care. I mean, think about it - when was the last time you actually took a break from social media? 😴 That's like, some serious burnout right there! We need to start prioritizing our mental health and not be so afraid of saying no to work or other obligations. It's all about finding that balance and being kind to ourselves. 💆‍♀️
 
🤔 I think this is so true! Like, how many times have we been told to just "push through" or that someone's just being lazy if they need a break? 🙄 But what if we're actually burning out? 😵 It makes sense that rest is essential for our well-being. What I find really interesting is that it doesn't even have to be super relaxing stuff, like watching TV all day... it can be as active as doing things you enjoy! 💃 So maybe we should start prioritizing our own needs and taking breaks in a way that feels good for us? 😊
 
I'm so over this whole burnout thing 🤯♀️. Like, we're always being told to push ourselves to be more productive and efficient, but what's wrong with taking a break? Rest isn't just about sleeping all day or binge-watching Netflix (although, let's be real, that sounds amazing 😴). It's actually super important for our mental health and productivity.

I think the biggest problem is that we've been conditioned to believe that work means sacrificing everything else. Newsflash: it doesn't! 🙅‍♀️ Resting isn't selfish, it's necessary. And if you don't prioritize your own needs, you're going to burn out (literally and figuratively).

I love how experts are saying that rest can be just as active as it is passive. Like, I need my morning coffee to function, but a 30-minute walk or some yoga can actually be more restorative than scrolling through social media 😂. And emotional rest is just as important as physical rest - our internal monologue is always telling us when we're drained, so let's listen!

It's time to shift the narrative around rest and recognize that it's not something you can do on your own (although, self-care is still super important 🤗). We need to surround ourselves with people who care about our well-being and prioritize our own needs. Then, we can actually stand together and create a culture of rest, rather than burnout. 💪
 
I'm totally with this article 🙌. I mean, we've all been there - pushing ourselves to the limit, thinking that's what success means... but is it really? 🤔 It's like our bodies are constantly sending us these subtle signals saying "hey, slow down" 🚨, but we just ignore them and keep going. And then BAM! Burnout hits 😩.

For me, rest isn't about lounging on the couch all day (although that does sound nice 😴). It's about making time for the things that bring me joy and fulfillment. Like, I love playing with my cat, Luna 🐱... she always knows when I need a break 😹. And taking breaks throughout the day really helps me stay focused and productive.

I also think it's so important to recognize emotional rest as just as important as physical rest 💆‍♀️. Sometimes I just need to take a step back and recharge my batteries mentally 🤯. It's all about finding that balance, you know? 🌈

It's crazy how much we've internalized the idea that success means sacrificing everything for work... like, what even is success if it comes at the cost of our mental health? 🤷‍♀️. I'm totally on board with prioritizing rest and making self-care a non-negotiable part of my daily routine 💪.

So yeah, let's make rest cool again 😎! Who needs productivity hacks when you can just take a deep breath and trust your body to tell you what it needs? 🌱
 
Rest is literally the most underrated thing ever 🤯😴 I mean, who doesn't love just chillin' and recharging? But honestly, it's not like that anymore. We're constantly expected to be "on" and productive, and if we take a break, we're seen as lazy or weak 😒. Newsflash: rest is NOT selfish! It's actually super necessary for our mental and physical health 🤝. I wish more people would prioritize it, you know? Like, imagine having the energy to actually enjoy your hobbies or spend time with loved ones... it's a game changer 🎉. Can we please just make rest cool again?! 😅
 
I feel so guilty when I'm not working 🤯... like I'm wasting my life or something. But what if that's just it? Rest is actually really important for our bodies and minds 💆‍♀️. I mean, think about it - we're always connected to our phones or laptops, even when we're "not working". That sounds kinda exhausting 🤯... does anyone else feel like they can never fully disconnect? And what's the deal with schedule overload? Like, how many meetings can one person attend in a week?! 😂
 
🤯 I mean, come on... we live in an era where "productivity" has become the ultimate metric for success? 📈 We're literally burning out left and right because our bodies are screaming "STOP!" but our brains just won't listen 😴. It's like, I get it, rest isn't always easy to prioritize, but think about all the crazy stuff that happens when we're in that exhausted zone... 🤯 We lose focus, creativity takes a hit, and our relationships suffer. It's time to flip this script on overwork and just start listening to our bodies 💆‍♀️. I'm not saying take a three-month hiatus or anything (although, if you need it, go for it), but seriously, let's make rest a priority. Our sanity (and productivity) depend on it 😂
 
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