This year's cinematic landscape has given us a double feature of motherhood that is both brutal and brilliant. At the forefront are "Die My Love" and "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You", two films that not only explore the complexities of motherhood but also lay bare the societal expectations that suffocate women.
The former, directed by Lynne Ramsay, follows Jennifer Lawrence as Grace, a woman whose life is torn apart by postpartum depression and a repressed violence. The film's cinematography is achingly beautiful, capturing the desperation and loneliness that accompany Grace's descent into madness. Ramsay's direction is masterful, weaving together a narrative that is both hauntingly gorgeous and brutally honest.
On the other hand, Mary Bronstein's "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" tells the story of Linda, a therapist struggling to cope with her daughter's eating disorder, her husband's infidelity, and her own crumbling mental health. The film is a masterclass in performances, with Rose Byrne delivering a harrowingly vulnerable portrayal of Linda that will leave audiences shaken.
What both films have in common is their unwavering commitment to telling women's stories, without compromise or sugarcoating. They are not "fun" movies; they are gut-wrenching explorations of the human condition, laying bare the societal expectations that suffocate women and the personal costs that come with them.
Ultimately, both films are a testament to the power of cinema as empathy, allowing us to see the world through the eyes of women who have been marginalized and silenced. They will leave you breathless and bewildered, but also grateful for their unflinching honesty and unwavering commitment to telling stories that need to be told.
Both "Die My Love" and "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" deserve an A-grade, as they are two of the most impactful films of the year. If you haven't seen them yet, do yourself a favor and seek them out – but be prepared for a wild emotional ride that will leave you questioning everything.
The former, directed by Lynne Ramsay, follows Jennifer Lawrence as Grace, a woman whose life is torn apart by postpartum depression and a repressed violence. The film's cinematography is achingly beautiful, capturing the desperation and loneliness that accompany Grace's descent into madness. Ramsay's direction is masterful, weaving together a narrative that is both hauntingly gorgeous and brutally honest.
On the other hand, Mary Bronstein's "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" tells the story of Linda, a therapist struggling to cope with her daughter's eating disorder, her husband's infidelity, and her own crumbling mental health. The film is a masterclass in performances, with Rose Byrne delivering a harrowingly vulnerable portrayal of Linda that will leave audiences shaken.
What both films have in common is their unwavering commitment to telling women's stories, without compromise or sugarcoating. They are not "fun" movies; they are gut-wrenching explorations of the human condition, laying bare the societal expectations that suffocate women and the personal costs that come with them.
Ultimately, both films are a testament to the power of cinema as empathy, allowing us to see the world through the eyes of women who have been marginalized and silenced. They will leave you breathless and bewildered, but also grateful for their unflinching honesty and unwavering commitment to telling stories that need to be told.
Both "Die My Love" and "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" deserve an A-grade, as they are two of the most impactful films of the year. If you haven't seen them yet, do yourself a favor and seek them out – but be prepared for a wild emotional ride that will leave you questioning everything.
. both films are like a punch to the gut - beautiful cinematography, masterful direction, but also brutally honest and unflinching in their portrayal of motherhood. Rose Byrne's performance in "If I Had Legs" is insane 
she just lays bare her soul on screen and it's heartbreaking to watch. and jennifer lawrence's character in "Die My Love" is like a reflection of my own anxiety when I'm feeling overwhelmed 
need some time to think about these movies now...
. I think what we need more of is stories like this – stories that make us uncomfortable and think critically about our expectations of women 
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And don't even get me started on the cinematography being "achingly beautiful" - give me some cheesy action flick any day 
i mean can we talk about how bold it is to tackle motherhood in such a raw way? its like these directors just stripped away all the superficiality and got straight to the point, exposing us to the darker side of womanhood. and jennifer lawrence as grace is just perfection 
roses Byrne's performance as linda is giving me CHILLS 
i need to watch both of these again ASAP and again and again...
jennifer lawrence and rose Byrne are absolute goddesses in their roles, i loved watching them bring these complex characters to life 
i know it can be tough to watch sometimes but trust me, it's necessary for us to see ourselves reflected on screen like this 
let's give these films all the love and support they deserve! 
it's like lynne ramsay and mary bronstein just ripped open a window into our collective psyche 
can't recommend enough, but be prepared to cry a lot of tears 
can feel like everyone's expectations are put on women and we're just expected to be perfect 
rose byrne's performance in if i had legs i'd kick you is seriously heart-wrenching 
. It's like, we need more movies like this, you know? That show us the ugly parts of life, but also remind us that we're not alone. Anyway, I'm definitely checking out both "Die My Love" and "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" ASAP 
. And Rose Byrne's performance in "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You" is just mind-blowing, she's so vulnerable and heartbreaking 
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But seriously though, both of these films are like a punch in the gut - not because they're trying to be mean, but because they're just so honest about the crap women have to deal with. Like, I get it, motherhood is hard, but come on, let's watch some real-life drama for once. Ramsay and Bronstein are like the cinematic version of your therapist who won't sugarcoat anything... minus the part where you actually have to talk about your feelings.
they're like two sides of the same coin, highlighting the brutal reality of motherhood while also showcasing incredible performances 
especially rose byrne in "if i had legs"... her portrayal of linda is hauntingly beautiful 
and jennifer lawrence's postpartum depression scenes are just... wow 
! "Die My Love" is like a punch to the gut, it's so raw and honest, I felt like I was right there with Jennifer Lawrence's character, Grace 
. These films deserve all the awards and accolades, they're truly cinematic masterpieces 
I just watched these two movies back to back and I'm still trying to process my emotions 
. One thing that really stood out to me is how raw and honest both films are. It's like the actresses, Jennifer Lawrence in "Die My Love" and Rose Byrne in "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You", are having an intense conversation with you directly 
. I mean, don't get me wrong, they're well-made films and all, but do we really need to wallow in all the feels every time? I liked "Die My Love" a bit more than "If I Had Legs I’d Kick You", but only because Jennifer Lawrence is always good for a drama 
. But can we get some more diversity in our cinematic landscape next year? 
it's like, we need more of this in our lives - stories that make us feel uncomfortable but ultimately help us grow as humans 