At 17, She Gave Up Her Son. Sixty Years Later, She Found Him on Death Row.

Sandra had almost forgotten about the child she had at 17, but her life was turned upside down again when a woman from Florida's Capital Collateral Regional Counsel – South arrived at her front door with news that her son, Barry Randolph, was on death row. Sixty years after Sandra gave him up for adoption, she finally got to know her son and realized that his troubled past had been shaped by the very circumstances of his adoption.

Sandra's decision to give her son away for adoption was made by her parents, who were determined to protect their family's reputation. They sent Barry to live with a couple in New York City, but the household was chaotic and abusive. Sandra's brother Jermaine remembers that their father would tie him up and beat him with a broomstick and a belt.

Despite the challenges he faced, Malcolm showed resilience and a strong sense of justice. He became involved in community activism and even spent time on death row, where he mentored younger men and maintained a spotless disciplinary record. However, when Sandra visited him before his execution, she was struck by the similarities between their lives - they both lived with anxiety and fear.

Malcolm's case highlights the need for reform in the US justice system, particularly when it comes to death penalty cases involving juveniles. The fact that he spent over three decades studying his faith, mentoring younger men on death row, mediating conflicts, and maintaining a spotless disciplinary record raises questions about the fairness of the death penalty.

Sandra's story also underscores the complexity of adoption and its impact on families. Her decision to give her son away for adoption was made with good intentions, but it ultimately led to Malcolm's troubled past. Sandra's struggles to come to terms with her past and her relationship with her son serve as a reminder that forgiveness and understanding are essential for healing.

The case against Malik Abdul-Sajjad is a heartbreaking example of the devastating consequences of the US justice system. Despite his efforts to make the most of the time he had left, he was ultimately executed by lethal injection on November 20, 2025, at the age of 57. His family and friends are left to grapple with the trauma and pain of losing someone who deserved a second chance.

The story of Malik Abdul-Sajjad serves as a wake-up call for the US justice system to re-examine its stance on capital punishment. With over 60 people still on death row, it is time to consider alternatives that prioritize rehabilitation and restorative justice. The fate of those like Malcolm who are left behind by the justice system highlights the need for systemic change and a renewed commitment to human rights and dignity.
 
🤔 This case is a real eye-opener, right? I mean, can you imagine having your life turned upside down 60 years later just because you made a decision that was meant to protect yourself? It's like, what does that say about the US system of adoption and family courts? Is it really fair to penalize someone for something their parents did when they were young?

And let's talk about the death penalty itself. I'm not saying we should just abolish it overnight, but do we really need to be so harsh on juveniles like Malik who are just trying to make a difference in their communities? It's like, we're teaching them that violence is an acceptable way to solve problems.

I also think this case highlights the need for more transparency and accountability in our justice system. If Sandra had known about Barry's situation when she gave him up for adoption, maybe things would have turned out differently. And what about Malik? Did his lawyers really do everything they could to save him?

It's time for us to take a hard look at our systems and make some changes. We need to prioritize rehabilitation over punishment and make sure that people like Malcolm get the second chances they deserve. 💡
 
🤯 this story of Sandra and her son Barry just broke my heart, it's like they were living parallel lives but on opposite sides of a traumatic experience... I mean, can you blame her parents for trying to protect their family's reputation, but sending their child away to be abused is just heartbreaking. And the fact that Malcolm spent 3 decades studying his faith and mentoring others while on death row raises so many questions about the fairness of the system... like what even is justice at this point? 🤔
 
this is all so messed up 🤯... i mean, how can you have kids taken away from their families just because your parents don't want any drama? Sandra's decision was made with good intentions, but it led to Malcolm's whole life being ruined. and now he's dead 💀... that's not fair at all. and the fact that the US is still using the death penalty is just plain wrong 🤔... i mean, what kind of system lets you execute someone for something they did as a kid? it's just not right 🙅‍♂️... we need to rethink our whole justice system and make sure people are treated with dignity and respect 🌎... it's time for some serious reform 😬
 
man this is so sad 🤕 I feel bad for Sandra having to go through all this after not even knowing her son existed she must've been feeling like her whole world got turned upside down again just when she thought things were gonna be better 🌎 the fact that Barry went through so much trauma and abuse from a young age is just heartbreaking 😭 it's crazy how something as well-intentioned as adoption can lead to so many negative consequences I hope Sandra finds some kind of closure and peace now that she knows her son was executed, but like what can you even do with this situation? 🤷‍♂️
 
🤕 this is just heartbreaking - 60 years too late for a second chance at life... malcolm's story highlights how adoption can have devastating effects on families, especially when it comes from a place of fear & reputation over love & care 🤝 the justice system needs to seriously re-examine its stance on capital punishment & prioritize rehabilitation & restorative justice 🚫 60 people still on death row is too many - we need systemic change ASAP 💖
 
OMG u know this story is so sad 🤕 but at the same time it's kinda eye-opening ?! Sandra's son Barry was sent to live with a family that turned out to be super toxic, and now we're seeing how his adoption impacted him in such a huge way. It makes me think about our own families & how we can work together to support each other instead of hurting each other 💕 also, it's wild that Malcolm spent 3 decades studying & mentoring people on death row & yet he still got executed lol what even is that?! 🙄 anywayz i think this case highlights the need for some serious reform in our justice system. We gotta start thinking about alternatives to the death penalty that prioritize rehabilitation & helping people make amends 💖
 
😔 I'm so saddened by this story, it's heartbreaking to think about how many people like Barry and Malik have been through such trauma just because they got caught up in the wrong system 🤕. The fact that Malcolm spent 3 decades studying his faith and trying to make a difference on death row, only to be executed at 57, is just devastating 💔. It's a total waste of life, you know? I think we need to seriously rethink our justice system, prioritize rehabilitation over punishment, and give people like Malik and Barry a second chance 🌟. We can't keep relying on the same old methods that have been proven to fail time and time again 🚫. It's time for change, and it starts with empathy and understanding ❤️.
 
I'm so sad about this case 🤕. The fact that a person can spend their whole life in prison just because they're from the wrong side of the tracks is just wrong 😔. I think we need to re-think our justice system and make sure that people like Malcolm get a second chance ❤️.

[Diagram: A simple mind map with the words "Justice System", "Reform", and "Second Chance" in the center, connected by arrows]

We should be focusing on helping people repair their mistakes rather than punishing them for life 🌱. It's not fair to take away someone's life just because of a mistake they made as a kid.

[ASCII art: A simple house with a broken heart inside, surrounded by bars]

This case really makes you think about the importance of empathy and understanding in our justice system 💡. We need to be able to see things from other people's perspectives and treat everyone with dignity and respect 🙏.
 
i'm literally shook by this story 🤯... can you imagine having your whole life changed in an instant? i mean, sandra gave her son up for adoption thinking it was best for everyone involved, but it ended up creating a whole mess of trauma for both her and malcolm. it's like, what even is the point of giving someone away if we're just gonna create more pain and anxiety down the line?

and then to see how hard malcolm fought against his circumstances, only to be stuck on death row... it's heartbreaking. i think this case really highlights the need for reform in the us justice system. like, what is rehabilitation even if we're just gonna execute someone anyway? shouldn't we be focusing on fixing people instead of breaking them?

anyway, i'm just feeling so sad and frustrated by all of this 🤕. it's like, can't we all just get along and try to make things better for each other?
 
I just can't believe what's going on in this country 🤯 - the death penalty is so harsh, especially when it comes to juveniles 😔. Sandra's story about her son Malcolm is really eye-opening, I mean, he was basically a good guy who ended up on death row 🤦‍♂️. And now he's gone 💀. It makes me think of all those other people who are stuck in this system, like Malcolm, just waiting for their turn to die ⏰.

I feel so bad for Sandra too, she went through so much emotional pain trying to come to terms with her past and her son 😭. I hope that one day we can change the law and make it so that people like Malcolm get a second chance 🌟. We should be focusing on rehabilitation and restorative justice instead of just punishing people 💪.

It's crazy that someone as young as 17 could have their whole life changed by the circumstances of adoption 😲. I mean, Sandra's parents didn't even give her all the facts before she gave Malcolm up for adoption 🤷‍♀️. It's like, we need to be more careful and compassionate when it comes to family decisions 👪.

I wish there were more awareness about this issue, so that people can understand how harsh the death penalty can be 😔. We should be talking about this more in schools, in our communities... everywhere 📚💬. It's time for change 💥!
 
I just got done reading about this crazy story of a woman whose son was on death row 🤯... and I'm still trying to process it all. So, like, his mom gave him up for adoption when she was 17 and he ended up in this super abusive household in NYC? That's messed up 😕. And now we're talking about how the justice system is so flawed that even after spending decades studying and doing good stuff on death row, he still got executed 🤷‍♂️. It's like, what even is wrong with our country sometimes?! 🙄. I'm just really sad for his mom and all the people who are left to deal with the trauma of losing someone who deserved a second chance ❤️. Can we just talk about something else now? 😅
 
I'm not sure if I agree that we should be re-examining the death penalty, 🤔. I mean, on the other hand, isn't it clear that we can do better than executing people who are already serving life sentences? 😬 But wait, doesn't that just create a whole new set of problems and make it harder for them to get parole or whatever? 🤷‍♂️

And what about rehabilitation and restorative justice? Isn't that just a fancy way of saying we're giving people a chance to turn their lives around and become productive members of society again? 🤔 I mean, on the one hand, it sounds great in theory, but on the other hand, aren't some people just too far gone and can't be saved no matter what we do? 😩

I don't know, maybe I'm just stuck in my ways. But what if we just took a step back and thought about this whole thing from a different angle? 🤯 Like, instead of focusing on the death penalty, what if we focused on how to help people like Malik Abdul-Sajjad actually live their lives after they're released? That could be the real key to making a difference, right? 🤝
 
I'm seriously shook by this story 😱. It's just not right that these people, especially juveniles, are facing the death penalty. I mean, 3 decades of studying his faith and mentoring others on death row? That's some real growth right there 🤯. Sandra's son was basically sentenced to life without a chance at redemption. And it's all because of a system that's supposed to be about justice, but is really just about punishment. We need to rethink our approach to the death penalty and prioritize rehabilitation over retribution. It's not too late to make a change 🕰️. Let's work towards a more compassionate and fair society for everyone 💖.
 
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