At 17, She Gave Up Her Son. Sixty Years Later, She Found Him on Death Row.

In 1963, Sandra, a 17-year-old high school student, gave birth to a baby boy in Queens, New York. She was unmarried and from a middle-class family with strong church ties. Her parents forced her to give the child up for adoption, allegedly so that he would have a better life.

For years, Sandra didn't think about her son. She graduated high school, went to college, got married, and built a successful career in international banking. However, as she approached her 30th birthday in 1975, she began wondering what had happened to her child.

Sandra eventually tracked down her son, Malik, who was now on death row in Florida for a murder he committed at the age of 17. Her search led her to learn about his troubled past and how it may have contributed to his actions.

Malik's adoptive father testified that he and his wife told their adopted son that he was adopted because of a book recommended by the adoption agency. However, this revelation had devastating effects on Malik, who struggled emotionally from an early age. He was beaten with hands, brooms, and belts as punishment.

Sandra visited her son before his execution, but she cancelled at the last minute due to health issues. Her nieces and nephews have all found success and happiness, which makes it difficult for Sandra to accept that her own son's life will be cut short by the state.

Malik spent decades studying his faith, mentoring younger men on death row, mediating conflicts, and maintaining a spotless disciplinary record. He had formed loving relationships with both biological and adopted families.

The execution took place on November 20, 2025, at 6 p.m. ET. Malik's time of death was 6:12 p.m. He was the 44th person executed in the United States that year and the 17th in Florida.

Sandra has been grappling with the question of why her son's life turned out the way it did. She fears that knowing the details will be painful, but she may never have closure without this information.

The execution raises questions about the effectiveness of the death penalty and whether it can deter crime. Some argue that it does, while others believe that it is a form of state-sponsored violence that fails to address the root causes of violent behavior.
 
Man I'm still trying to process this... Sandra's story is like something out of a horror movie 🀯 She was just a teenager when her parents forced her to give up her kid, and now he's on death row for committing a crime at 17... it's just so sad πŸ˜” And what's crazy is that her biological nieces and nephews all turned out okay but Malik's life took a totally different turn πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ The fact that he was punished harshly by his adoptive parents and then went on to study his faith and try to help others is just amazing ❀️ But the death penalty... it's like, does it really deter crime or are we just killing people for the sake of killing them? πŸ€” I don't have all the answers, but one thing's for sure, this story needs more attention and we need to be talking about it more πŸ“°πŸ’¬
 
just read about malik's story and i'm literally shaking... 30 yrs of life and he was beatin' ppl as punishment cuz he knew he was adopted and nobody told him the truth 😩 what if this happens to more people out there? adoption system is broken, plain and simple. these families need counseling and support, not just some book recommended by an agency πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ how many other maliks are out there struggling with their identity and upbringing? and what about those nieces and nephews who found success? doesn't that make it even harder for sandra to accept her son's fate? 6:12 pm on nov 20, 2025... my heart is heavy πŸ™
 
man this story is just so heartbreaking πŸ€•... like sandra's whole life she thought her son was doing okay, but all along he was struggling and hurting from being told he was adopted for reasons he didn't understand... and now he's gone πŸ˜”... it's crazy to think about how much of a difference that one piece of information could make in his life... maybe if he knew the truth from the start, things would've been different... but at the same time, you can't help but wonder if knowing would've made any real difference πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ... what are your thoughts on the death penalty tho? does it ever work?
 
The tale of Sandra and her son Malik is a heart-wrenching exemplar of the complex interplay between trauma, identity, and societal expectations. The fact that Malik's adoptive father presented him with a simplistic narrative about his adoption as a justification for his circumstances is nothing short of appalling 🀯. It's a stark reminder that our understanding of identity is often rooted in narratives that can be damaging and suffocating.

The death penalty, as an institution, raises fundamental questions about our societal values and priorities πŸ’”. While some argue that it serves as a deterrent to crime, I'd posit that its effectiveness is dubious at best πŸ€”. The notion that punishment alone can rectify the root causes of violent behavior is simplistic and misguided. It's imperative we reexamine our stance on capital punishment and prioritize evidence-based solutions that address the complexities of human behavior πŸ’‘.
 
Can you imagine growin' up thinkin' you're adopted 'cause some book said so & gettin' all sorts of abuse as punishment? πŸ€• It's like, why would anyone do that 2 their own kid? πŸ˜”
 
πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ I mean, what's up with this whole adoption thing? Sandra gives her kid up for adoption, and then she just magically finds out 12 years later that he's on death row for murder? Like, where were these guys when it counted? And now he's dead. 😩 It's all so... sad.

And what's the deal with Malik's adoptive family telling him he was adopted because of a book? That's not exactly the most supportive way to start life, you know? I feel bad for this guy, but at the same time, some people might say that his whole situation is just a result of his own choices. πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ But Sandra's right, she deserves closure, even if it means dealing with all these painful details.

I don't know, maybe the death penalty should be abolished or something? I mean, it's not like it's working out for everyone, right? It's just so... complicated. 🀯
 
I feel so bad for Sandra & Malik's story πŸ€•... it's like, how could her parents just give him away? I mean, I know they wanted him to have a better life, but at what cost? πŸ˜” It's crazy that he was even on death row in the first place. I don't think there's any excuse for that kind of punishment, you feel? 🀯 And now Malik is gone... it's just not right. Sandra deserves some answers, but I'm not sure she'll ever get them πŸ’”
 
I feel so bad for Sandra and her son Malik πŸ€•. I can only imagine how hard it must be for her to come to terms with what happened to him. Adoption can be messy, especially if you're not prepared for the truth about your past. It's like, your whole life is built around a secret, and then suddenly that secret comes out and shakes everything up.

I've seen some people say that the death penalty is necessary to keep society safe, but I'm not so sure πŸ€”. It seems to me like we're more likely to be punished for our mistakes than actually learn from them. I mean, Malik was 17 when he made a mistake, and yet here he is on death row. You wonder what could've been done differently.

I wish Sandra had some closure before it was too late πŸ˜”. It's not just her son's life that's lost, but also the chance for redemption and forgiveness. I guess all we can do now is hope that his story will help us see things in a different way πŸ’‘.
 
ugh man, i'm gettin really emotional just thinkin bout this πŸ€• malik's story is like, so heartbreaking. i mean, he was raised in a household that didn't love him back and it's no wonder he struggled. but what hurts me most is that his family didn't even tell him the truth about why he was adopted πŸ€”. can u imagine how hard it must've been for him to figure out his own identity? anyway, i'm tryin not to think about the execution too much, cuz it's just so sad πŸ˜”. but what really gets me is that malik had so much good in him - he was a studious kid who mentored others and helped mediate conflicts 🀝. it just feels like the system failed him at every turn. i guess we'll never know for sure why his life turned out the way it did, but it's def makin me think about how important it is to support each other and lift each other up πŸ’–
 
OMG 🀯 I'm literally shakin' my head thinkin' 'bout this tragic story! #DeathPenalty #JusticeSystemFail Sandra's son Malik went through so much emotional trauma, and it's heartbreaking to think about how his life was affected by the fact he was adopted without a clear reason. #AdoptionStory #EmotionalTrauma I mean, can't we just talk about this stuff in a more open & honest way? #TransparencyMatters This whole ordeal makes me wonder if the death penalty is really doin' what it's supposed to do: keep people safe πŸ€”
 
I cant even imagine how Sandra must be feeling, its like my heart is breaking for her πŸ˜”. I mean, think about it, she's been searching for her son for decades, and now he's gone πŸ’”. It's not just that he died, but the way he was raised and punished as a kid... its like, how can you even prepare someone to be a human being when they're treated like this? 🀯 I feel like we should be asking ourselves why our justice system is so messed up, instead of just debating whether or not it deters crime. We need to be having conversations about the root causes of violence and how we can create a more compassionate society, you know? πŸ˜•
 
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