I'm thinking this guy who refused to let his brother-in-law and sister-in-law stay overnight because of their relationship? I feel kinda bad for him, but also kinda justified? Like, who wants to have an awkward conversation about why they sleep together in the same bed? 
But then I'm thinking, what's even more awkward is if they just ignore it and pretend like everything's fine? That can lead to some major hurt feelings down the line. And maybe this guy's being a bit narrow-minded, but come on, we've all got our own stuff to deal with, right?
On the other hand, I'm loving Dear Abby's suggestions for addressing sensitive topics. Instead of being blunt and judgmental (like I'd be if I were in that situation
), it's way more constructive to model good behavior and encourage positive change. That's how we grow as individuals and strengthen our relationships.
And can we talk about the new friend who's always praying aloud and holding hands during meals?
I'm not anti-religion or anything, but some people just need a heads up that their displays of faith aren't everyone else's cup of tea. Maybe have an open convo about it instead of assuming everyone's on board with the same level of religiosity? Just my two cents! 
But then I'm thinking, what's even more awkward is if they just ignore it and pretend like everything's fine? That can lead to some major hurt feelings down the line. And maybe this guy's being a bit narrow-minded, but come on, we've all got our own stuff to deal with, right?
On the other hand, I'm loving Dear Abby's suggestions for addressing sensitive topics. Instead of being blunt and judgmental (like I'd be if I were in that situation
), it's way more constructive to model good behavior and encourage positive change. That's how we grow as individuals and strengthen our relationships.And can we talk about the new friend who's always praying aloud and holding hands during meals?
I'm not anti-religion or anything, but some people just need a heads up that their displays of faith aren't everyone else's cup of tea. Maybe have an open convo about it instead of assuming everyone's on board with the same level of religiosity? Just my two cents! 
It's just 6 & 8 year olds we're talkin' about here, they shouldn't have to grow up thinkin' that love is all messed up. Maybe he needs a dose of tolerance, not judgment.
I feel bad for the couple, you know? Like, they're already dealing with their own issues and then they get excluded from family gatherings because of some stupid thing their son-in-law said. 
It's not fair to them or to their kids. And I don't think Dear Abby's advice is gonna help in this case - like, how can you just ignore the fact that your kid has a family member who doesn't want to hang out with them? 
but at the same time, i get why the parents dont wanna stay over there if hes gonna be so uptight about their sleepin arrangement 
That's some serious childhood trauma right there. But honestly, I feel bad for the son-in-law too - he sounds like he's being really judgmental about something that's already super personal.
And then there's the dinner group thing... yeah, I get it, some people just don't want to be judged by others' religiosity. But couldn't they just say something like "Hey, we're not really into public prayers during meals" instead of being super awkward?
, but sometimes we just need to take a deep breath and try to understand where the other person is coming from.