omg i feel like this is so relatable right now 
i mean who hasn't used their parents credit card without asking permission right? 
but for real tho, it's a big deal and i think the mom is being super chill about it which is awesome 
. i think harriette cole has some good advice though - having an open convo with her son about what happened is key 
. maybe she can even talk to him about why he used her credit card without asking and see if there's something going on that's causing him stress 
. and ugh, ghosting is just the WORST 
i feel so bad for that woman who got ghosted by her ex - it's like, can't they just explain what went wrong? 
anyway, harriette cole is all about focusing on personal growth and self-care which i am ALL. ABOUT. 
i mean who hasn't used their parents credit card without asking permission right? but for real tho, it's a big deal and i think the mom is being super chill about it which is awesome . i think harriette cole has some good advice though - having an open convo with her son about what happened is key . maybe she can even talk to him about why he used her credit card without asking and see if there's something going on that's causing him stress . and ugh, ghosting is just the WORST i feel so bad for that woman who got ghosted by her ex - it's like, can't they just explain what went wrong? anyway, harriette cole is all about focusing on personal growth and self-care which i am ALL. ABOUT. 
, using her own credit card info without permission is super irresponsible, but she's right to try not to be too harsh 
. I mean, she values their relationship and doesn't want to cut him off completely 
. And Harriette Cole makes a great point that talking it out and teaching him responsibility is way more effective than punishment 
. But, on the other hand, I can totally relate to feeling ghosted 
by an ex... it's like, what even happened?! 
You just wanna move on and find someone new who actually cares 
. I think we need to focus more on self-care and personal growth, you know? 
. I mean, yeah, she should talk to her son about it, but come on, he's 23 and lives alone... shouldn't he know better? 
. And poor woman who got ghosted by her ex, I feel bad for her too 