Prenuptial agreements, once considered a luxury only the ultra-rich could afford, have become increasingly mainstream in recent years. According to a 2023 Axios/Harris poll, half of US adults now say they're open to signing one, with younger generations driving this trend.
The numbers are staggering. Forty-one percent of Gen Z and 47 percent of millennials who are engaged or have been married signed a prenup, according to the same poll. But what's behind this shift? Experts point to new apps that make it easier and cheaper to draw up prenups, as well as social media influencers touting the value of prenups.
Social media platforms like TikTok have become breeding grounds for personal finance influencers, who share their own experiences with prenups. These influencers often use language that resonates with younger generations, emphasizing the importance of financial hygiene and responsibility in marriage.
The rise of prenups is also being driven by millennials and Gen Z's unique life experiences. Twenty-five percent of millennials are children of divorce or separation, making them more realistic about the possibility of their own marriages ending. As a result, they're taking a proactive approach to protecting their financial interests.
But not everyone is convinced that prenups are the answer. Some argue that these agreements can feel like a privatized solution to the messiness of marriage, rather than a broader societal response to divorce and relationship breakdowns. Others have raised concerns about the complexity and unpredictability of life, which can make it difficult for couples to navigate the nuances of prenups in practice.
As one woman who signed a prenup noted, "What if I book a show? What if I get a movie?" Her comment highlights the challenges of navigating the emotional and financial complexities of marriage, even with the best intentions. Ultimately, the rise of prenups may reflect our increasingly pragmatic approach to relationships – but it also raises important questions about what we value in partnership and what we're willing to sacrifice for love and security.
The numbers are staggering. Forty-one percent of Gen Z and 47 percent of millennials who are engaged or have been married signed a prenup, according to the same poll. But what's behind this shift? Experts point to new apps that make it easier and cheaper to draw up prenups, as well as social media influencers touting the value of prenups.
Social media platforms like TikTok have become breeding grounds for personal finance influencers, who share their own experiences with prenups. These influencers often use language that resonates with younger generations, emphasizing the importance of financial hygiene and responsibility in marriage.
The rise of prenups is also being driven by millennials and Gen Z's unique life experiences. Twenty-five percent of millennials are children of divorce or separation, making them more realistic about the possibility of their own marriages ending. As a result, they're taking a proactive approach to protecting their financial interests.
But not everyone is convinced that prenups are the answer. Some argue that these agreements can feel like a privatized solution to the messiness of marriage, rather than a broader societal response to divorce and relationship breakdowns. Others have raised concerns about the complexity and unpredictability of life, which can make it difficult for couples to navigate the nuances of prenups in practice.
As one woman who signed a prenup noted, "What if I book a show? What if I get a movie?" Her comment highlights the challenges of navigating the emotional and financial complexities of marriage, even with the best intentions. Ultimately, the rise of prenups may reflect our increasingly pragmatic approach to relationships – but it also raises important questions about what we value in partnership and what we're willing to sacrifice for love and security.
I think its cool that more ppl are thinkin bout their finances before gettin hitched. Gen Z and millennials r growin up with a different mindset, like, they know the risk of divorce and how it affects ur life, so why not protect urself? 
Also, I feel bad 4 those who r skeptical 'bout prenups, but its all about bein prepared, right? 
And omg, social media influencers r killin it with these finance tips! They make it look easy and accessible 
And can we talk about how old school some of these concerns r? Like, "What if I book a show?" lol, get a grip 
. Plus, I'm not sure how well these prenups really protect you in the long run... there are so many variables 
. We should be having more conversations about what we value in partnership and how to make it work long-term... instead of just trying to protect our own interests 
the whole 'financial hygiene' vibe on tiktok is giving me LIFE 
and it's so relatable to have those conversations with your partner about what you're comfortable with. I've got a friend who's recently gotten married and they signed a prenup because her fiancé was still paying off his student loans lol what if he loses his job? 
anyway i think this is the future of relationships, embracing practicality while still being romantic 
, i mean, its like we've come full circle - we used to think its only for the super rich now its for anyone who can afford it lol. but seriously, its interesting how younger gens are taking control of their finances in marriage and stuff...like, we all know divorce rates are still pretty high 
. but yeah, the part thats got me wondering is what does this say about our values as a society? are we more willing to just privatize our problems and solve them individually or are we trying to create a system that actually works for everyone? 
. Influencers are sharing their own experiences and tips, which can be really helpful for people who are just starting out or have questions about the process. And its great that younger generations are driving this trend - they're all about being responsible and planning ahead 
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I think its dope that people are getting more open to signing prenuptials! Growing up, I had friends who got married young and ended up struggling with finances after the breakup... now they get it! 
Its all about taking control of your own financial future. And honestly, 25% of millennials having grown up in divorced homes just makes sense to me - they know how messy life can be, so why not protect yourself? 
. Like, cant we just talk about our feelings and work through them together? Not saying thats always easy or possible, but still...
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. Instead of working together to build stronger relationships and communication skills, we're just trying to protect ourselves from potential heartbreak. I'm all about self-care, but is this really the best way to prioritize our well-being? 
Like, what if we both get laid off at the same time or something crazy like that happens? Can a prenup truly protect us from uncertainty? 
. As for the criticism about prenups feeling like a privatized solution, I get it – but for me, it's just a means to an end. At the end of the day, if someone wants to sign a prenup, that's their decision 
. But it also makes me wonder – what are we willing to sacrifice for love and security? That's the million-dollar question