I now declare you throuple: how to plan a polyamorous wedding

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When it comes to planning a polyamorous wedding, many couples face unique challenges. For Janie Coppola, 30, and her wife Margaret French, 32, the journey began in 2016 when they met on Tinder. What started as a casual hookup blossomed into a three-way relationship with husband Cody Coppola, 36.

To ensure their unconventional union was recognized, the trio worked with a legal expert to create documents that would allow them to cohabitate and own property together - essentially building a life together like any traditional family unit. This included wills, life insurance policies, and power of attorney agreements.

Their wedding ceremony on October 18th was a beautiful celebration of love in all its forms. With the help of their realtor-turned-choreographer, the trio crafted an unforgettable experience that incorporated personalized touches and emotional depth. It was clear from the start that this wasn't just any ordinary union.

For Janie and Margaret, the day began with an early morning rehearsal where they danced together for the first time in their relationship. Their love story is one of devotion, acceptance, and support - a testament to the power of non-traditional relationships.

Their final advice? "Don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for." It's a lighthearted yet poignant reminder that true friendships are built on mutual respect and trust.

When it comes to planning a wedding, polyamorous couples face unique challenges. Janie, Margaret, and Cody have shown us that love is love, no matter what form it takes.
 
I remember when I was young & we had those old-school MTV music videos playing on our laptops, thinking our families would never understand if we were into someone else too 📺💕 Polyamory's not new, but it's cool to see how far they've come! Janie, Margaret, and Cody seem like a lovely bunch, all about acceptance & love. I do wish there was more support for non-traditional families in the past, though. It's great that they got everything sorted out with those lawyers 📝💼. Their wedding sounds amazing, by the way - I bet it was just as magical as a 90s Britney Spears concert 💃🏻.
 
I'm so nostalgic for the good old days of relationship milestones... remember when weddings were just about two people getting hitched? Now, polyamorous relationships are becoming more accepted and celebrated! It's like how we used to watch Friends all day and be like "that's what love is supposed to look like"... now it's even more amazing to see the beauty in non-traditional unions.

I mean, can you imagine planning a wedding with just one other person? No drama, no comparison... Janie, Margaret, and Cody are truly inspiring. Their story is like a breath of fresh air - it shows us that love knows no bounds (or rules, lol). And who needs a traditional wedding setup when you can have a beautiful ceremony with all the people you care about?

I think what I love most about their advice... "don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for"... is how relatable it is. It's like our parents used to say - be kind and respectful, and you'll find true friends. Anyway, I'm so glad we're living in a time where love comes in all shapes and sizes 🤗💕
 
I gotta say, this polyamorous thing is kinda like my grandma's old love nest, you know? Back in the day, people just loved whoever they wanted, and that was it 🙃. It's crazy to think about how much has changed, but at the end of the day, love is still love. Janie, Margaret, and Cody seem like a pretty chill bunch, and I'm glad they found each other. That advice about not inviting anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for? Total mom wisdom right there 👵. Anyway, it's nice to see polyamory getting more recognition, but can we talk about how much better the music was back in 2016?
 
omg u guys i'm literally so in awe of this fam 🤩 they're proof that love is love no matter what... idk about the logistics but i do know that their commitment to each other is REAL 💯 and honestly can we talk for a sec how inspiring it is that they were able to plan a wedding together? like, i've heard of polyam relationships being tough but to actually make it work and celebrate with an entire day is just... wow 🤫 Janie & Margaret's advice about not inviting ppl u wouldn't feed dinner to is soooo true lol we should all take notes on that one 😂
 
I'm loving this non-traditional fam vibe 💕! But I gotta say, I'm surprised they didn't talk about the financials more... like how do you split bills when three people are involved? 🤔 Are there any specific budgeting strategies that work for polyam families? I've got a few friends who are trying to navigate this and it's been super helpful to hear from someone who's already done it. 👀
 
🤷‍♂️[a guy making a peace sign with his hands]

💕[a heart with an arrow through it pointing upwards]

😂[Dwayne "The Rock" Johnson saying "Can you smell what the Rock is cooking?"]

💏[Keanu Reeves and Neve Campbell from the movie "Bill & Ted's Excellent Adventure" giving a high-five]

📝[a pen scribbling in an invisible notebook with a smile]

👫[a group of friends laughing together]

🤴[Prince Harry giving a thumbs up]
 
🌸🤝 I'm so inspired by this lovely polyamorous couple! Their commitment to each other and their unconventional family unit is truly beautiful ❤️. It's amazing how they were able to navigate the legal side of things and create a life together that works for all three of them 🙏. And can we talk about their advice? "Don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for" is literally the best thing I've ever heard 😂! It's all about building genuine connections with people and treating others with respect and kindness. To Janie, Margaret, and Cody, thank you for showing us that love comes in many forms and that family can be whatever we make it 🌈.
 
I was just thinking about my old grandma's garden 🌼... she had this crazy collection of cacti and succulents, I swear they were like little alien plants or something! 🚀 Anyway, back to polyamory... I think the thing that really gets me is how people still have these preconceived notions about it. Like, "oh, it's just a phase" or "they're just not committed". Commitment is commitment, no matter if you've got one person or three! 💕 What do you guys think?
 
I gotta say, their story's kinda making me think... if we're being real with ourselves, aren't all relationships about finding people who are okay with you for who you are? Like, Janie, Margaret, and Cody aren't doing anything crazy, they're just being true to themselves and finding someone else who feels the same way. We need to stop putting so much pressure on these polyamorous couples to fit into some traditional mold of "happily ever after". Their non-traditional love isn't weird, it's just different... 🤷‍♂️
 
🤩 I'm literally so in awe of this trios love story! 🤗 They're proof that non-traditional relationships can be just as beautiful and valid as any other type of union. I mean, who needs traditional norms when you've got love on your side? 💕 The way they worked together to create these awesome documents and plan their special day is truly inspiring. And let's be real, their final advice is the best thing ever! 😂 "Don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for" - what a wonderful reminder that true friendships are all about mutual respect and trust. I'm literally shipping this fam so hard 💖
 
I mean, I'm not sure if I'd want a friend to get married... like, three times? 😂 Their love story is pretty sweet, but can you imagine having three spouses? It's a lot of drama and stress, if you ask me 🤯. And what about the logistics? How do they make decisions together as a triad? It just seems too complicated for me 🤔. Don't get me wrong, I'm all for love in all its forms, but I think I'd stick to a one-on-one relationship myself 💕.
 
I'm loving this polyamorous couple's vibes 🌈 They're proving that love knows no bounds, and their commitment to each other is truly inspiring 💕. It's amazing how they were able to navigate the complexities of cohabiting and owning property together - I mean, who needs a traditional marriage contract when you've got wills, life insurance policies, and power of attorney agreements in place? 😂. But seriously, their story is a beautiful reminder that relationships come in all shapes and sizes, and that's what makes them so special ❤️.
 
I feel so bad for people who are struggling with their relationships and don't know where to turn 🤕. The fact that Janie, Margaret, and Cody went through all the hassle of creating documents just so they could be together as a family unit is just amazing 💯. It's not about being unconventional or trying to be different, it's about being true to themselves and finding love in whatever form it takes ❤️. And can we talk about how beautiful their wedding ceremony was? I'm sure it was truly unforgettable 😍. But what really gets me is when they say "don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for" - that's just so wise 🤓. It's all about treating others with respect and kindness, even if they're not part of your immediate family.
 
OMG, I'm loving this couple's vibe 💕! It's so beautiful to see them embracing their non-traditional relationship and making it work for themselves 🙌. The fact that they've got all the legal documents in place shows how serious they are about building a life together as a team 👫. And can we talk about how gorgeous their wedding ceremony was? 🎉 I'm sure it was truly unforgettable! Their advice to "don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for" is super relatable and hilarious 😂. It's amazing that they're spreading love and acceptance, especially for polyamorous couples who often get misunderstood 💖. Let's keep cheering them on and celebrating all forms of love 🎉💕
 
🤗 I gotta say, their story is super inspiring! I mean, can you even imagine having to deal with all the legal stuff when you're trying to plan a wedding? It's crazy how much work goes into just making sure everyone's rights are protected. Like, I get it, polyamory is legit and should be recognized as such... it's wild that they had to go through all this drama.

But what really gets me is how beautiful their relationship is. Like, the way they worked together to make their wedding special is just gorgeous. And Cody being part of it? 🤝 It's not like he was left out or anything! The whole thing feels so... happy and loving. You can tell that Janie and Margaret are truly devoted to each other.

And don't even get me started on the advice at the end. 😂 "Don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for"? That's just hilarious! But also kinda profound, right? I mean, it makes sense - if you're gonna be friends with someone, you should be able to have a good time with them.

Anyway, what really resonates with me is that they're showing us that love comes in all shapes and sizes... and forms. It's not just about two people being together; it's about supporting each other no matter what. That's something we could all learn from, if you ask me. 💕
 
Ugh, can we talk about how this article is basically just a Facebook post in disguise? 🤦‍♀️ I mean, seriously, who writes a wedding feature without even giving the couple's real names or any additional context? It feels like a lazy attempt to capitalize on the 'polyamory trend'. And don't even get me started on how they got their realtor-turned-choreographer gig... it sounds like a total publicity stunt 🤑.

And honestly, I'm not buying into this whole "don't invite anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for" advice. Sounds like something a 30-something social media influencer would spout. Where's the depth? The nuance? Can't we have more substance in our wedding features than just shallow life hacks? 🤔
 
I gotta say, I'm so glad to see more folks like the Coppola trio out there being true to themselves 🙏💕. Planning a polyamorous wedding must be super complicated, but they made it work and even had a beautiful ceremony 💃🕺. It's amazing how much love and acceptance are required in relationships, especially when it comes to non-traditional ones. And I love their advice on not inviting anyone you wouldn't buy dinner for - that's just good life wisdom 🍴💬.
 
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