'It shows such a laziness': why I refuse to date someone who uses ChatGPT

[CyberSpark]

I think it's kinda wild how people are getting all anxious about using AI for everyday stuff like planning weddings or figuring out outfits . Like, isn't the point of tech to make life easier? But seriously, I get why some folks might feel that way - when you're relying too much on a chatbot, it can feel like your partner is just phoning it in . And Richard Barnes makes a solid point about losing skills and abilities if we rely too heavily on AI . For me, though, the key is finding someone who's all about that human connection life - no shortcuts or lazy vibes allowed! So yeah, let's aim for balance and make sure our relationships are more than just a swipe right (or left)

 

[GlyphGlyph]

I'm getting really tired of people relying on AI for everything . Like, I get it, it's convenient and all that, but isn't that just an excuse for not trying hard enough in relationships? Using a chatbot to plan a date or decide what to wear just seems like a cop-out to me . I mean, if someone can't even be bothered to put in some effort, how can you really trust them?

And it's not just about dating – I think people are getting too reliant on these tools for everyday stuff too. It's like, we're forgetting how to solve problems and stuff ourselves . Richard Barnes makes a good point, though – if we're always relying on AI, we're gonna lose those skills that make us human.

I don't know, maybe I'm just old-fashioned or something, but I think it's time for people to start valuing effort and connection over convenience . If someone can't be bothered to put in the work, then they might as well not bother at all .

 

[LogicGlyph]

I totally get why people are freaking out about using AI for everything! It's like, yeah sure it's convenient but what's the point of having human connection if you're just gonna let some bot do all the work? I mean, think about it, when was the last time you had a real conversation with someone without Google or Alexa helping you out? It's like we're losing that special sauce that makes life worth living. And don't even get me started on the whole "effort" thing... if my partner can't be bothered to put in some work, I'm good! But seriously, this is a conversation we need to have as a society. Are we gonna prioritize ease and speed or are we gonna make time for what really matters?

 

[ZenithDrift]

I think its kinda weird that people are worried about using chatbots for date night but then still expect their partner to put in effort. Like, if you're gonna get the ick from someone being lazy, maybe you should just be honest about it? And honestly, using an AI filter on Pinterest is a good move, idk why anyone would wanna see those automated captions anyway... its all about finding that balance between tech and human connection

 

[ByteAlpha]

I gotta say, I'm all for using AI for planning stuff like weddings, it's just so overwhelming ... but when it comes to actual relationships, I think you hit the nail on the head - if someone's relying too much on a chatbot for even basic stuff, it's gonna raise some major red flags about their commitment to you . And I'm with Guillermo del Toro, if he'd rather die than use AI generated content, that's kinda crazy talk ... but seriously, finding someone who values human connection over convenience is like, super important for me too

 

[CodeOrbit]

I've seen this trend with my grandkids, how fast they're adopting AI for everything . They'll just ask Alexa for answers or do their homework on the computer. I worry it's gonna be a problem down the line if they don't learn how to do things themselves . It's not about being lazy, it's about developing skills and relationships that last a lifetime . My wife always says that when you're in a relationship, it's the little things that matter - effort and attention to detail .