Kids Don't Want to Go to Child-Free Weddings Either
Imagine attending a wedding and being the sole kid in attendance. That's probably not how you envision your special day – or any day for that matter. The idea of sitting alone, bored out of your mind, while grown-ups laugh, dance, and enjoy themselves might just send shivers down your spine. Kids aren't exactly keen on such a scenario, with most feeling they'd rather stay home than be the only kid at a child-free wedding.
Ronan, who's 8 years old, was asked if he'd ever want to go to a grown-up party like that. He responded by saying skip it altogether – not because he didn't think the adults would have fun, but simply because no other kids were present. Similarly, Rafi and Ellie, both 5 years old, expressed their preference for staying home too. Their attitude seems reasonable given the thought process: why risk a dull afternoon when there's no one to share it with?
It’s worth noting that children still have to navigate growing up, and their perception of situations can be far from accurate – but this is true for adults as well. This survey isn't conclusive by any stretch, but it does seem kids tend to enjoy the idea of weddings and being invited – mostly if there are other young folks around to share in the fun.
The debate on whether or not children should be allowed at child-free weddings continues with no end in sight. Ultimately, adults who get married have the right to decide their own events, but they must respect those that aren't part of it. If you're invited and don't want to go, it's perfectly fine to decline – so just say no. The kids are pretty clear about what they'd prefer as well: be left alone or at least not the only ones around.
Imagine attending a wedding and being the sole kid in attendance. That's probably not how you envision your special day – or any day for that matter. The idea of sitting alone, bored out of your mind, while grown-ups laugh, dance, and enjoy themselves might just send shivers down your spine. Kids aren't exactly keen on such a scenario, with most feeling they'd rather stay home than be the only kid at a child-free wedding.
Ronan, who's 8 years old, was asked if he'd ever want to go to a grown-up party like that. He responded by saying skip it altogether – not because he didn't think the adults would have fun, but simply because no other kids were present. Similarly, Rafi and Ellie, both 5 years old, expressed their preference for staying home too. Their attitude seems reasonable given the thought process: why risk a dull afternoon when there's no one to share it with?
It’s worth noting that children still have to navigate growing up, and their perception of situations can be far from accurate – but this is true for adults as well. This survey isn't conclusive by any stretch, but it does seem kids tend to enjoy the idea of weddings and being invited – mostly if there are other young folks around to share in the fun.
The debate on whether or not children should be allowed at child-free weddings continues with no end in sight. Ultimately, adults who get married have the right to decide their own events, but they must respect those that aren't part of it. If you're invited and don't want to go, it's perfectly fine to decline – so just say no. The kids are pretty clear about what they'd prefer as well: be left alone or at least not the only ones around.
. I mean, who wants to sit through a wedding party without any mini-me's in sight? It's all about perspective – if you're 8-5 and surrounded by no one, why bother, right? The fact that kids are being honest about their feelings is refreshing, even if it means some adults might have to get creative with kid-sitters or plan events with other young folks 
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. I mean, can you blame them? It's like, what even is the point of attending if there's no one to hang out with or play games with? 
My niece just turned 8 and she's already telling me that she doesn't want to go to weddings where she's the only kid 
. I get it, kids need their friends and family around them for a fun experience. And honestly, why should grown-ups expect us little humans to be all cool with being solo at their fancy parties? 
, he's more of a introvert and just wants to chill with his fam but it seems weird for him that we're expected to be social when there are no other kids around 
i think its kinda cool that they're speaking up tho, kids should get to make their own decisions about what makes them happy 
. Kids have a lot on their plates already, what with school and friends and growing up stuff 
. Let adults decide who to invite (or not) but also consider the tiny humans' feelings 
. If you're going to invite kids, make sure there's at least one other mini-me around or make it a family-friendly event 
. And honestly, who wouldn't want to go to a wedding if there were other kids around? 
. I mean can you blame them for wanting some mini-mes to hang out with? And who knows maybe grown-ups could learn from the kids and make parties more fun too 
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I mean, can't parents just ask their kid friends to come too? 
. I think kids are right to not want to be the only one at a wedding... it's like they need some friends to have fun too!
. I mean, kids need some social time too, even if it's just chillin' with other young folks 
. Like, who thought this was a good idea? It's just going to make everyone miserable, especially the kids 
. I think it's pretty reasonable that they'd want some buddies around, especially if there aren't any others going. It's not about being "uncool" or whatever, it's just about having a good time with people your own age... or at least, people who are close to the same age as you 
. But at the same time, I get why grown-ups want some adult space – I've been there too, trust me 
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