Metro Bank's credit file markers are adding to the pain of our son's death

"Banking Woes Made All the More Painful by Late Payments Marked on Son's Credit File"

A family who lost their 19-year-old son in July due to a long illness says that Metro Bank's refusal to remove late payment markers from his credit file is causing them immense stress. The family had been struggling to cope with the young man's illness, which included repeated hospitalizations and sectioning, as well as managing his care at home.

When the final year of his life was particularly difficult, the family fell behind on two mortgage repayments in February and March. However, since April they have made all their payments on time. Despite this, Metro Bank refused to remove the late payment markers from their credit file, citing that it would be an "exceptional" circumstance.

The family had submitted a goodwill gesture asking Metro Bank to remove the markers after explaining their difficult situation in August. However, the bank refused, citing that they would have made allowances if they were aware of their ordeal at the time the payments were missed.

This decision has made it extremely challenging for the family to remortgage their house with Nationwide, as the lender was also unaware of their circumstances and subsequently refused the application.

The Guardian advised waiting until their finances recover before making a new mortgage application, citing that multiple applications in a short space of time can damage credit scores. The family is now navigating a future without their son, and their financial struggles are only adding to the pain they're already feeling.
 
Ugh, this is just so messed up 🀯! I mean, I get it, no one likes taking out loans or dealing with credit issues, but come on Metro Bank, can't you just show some compassion? The family is going through hell and back losing their kid, and you're still holding them to those late payments like they're the ones who missed them in the first place πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. It's not like they had control over that or anything.

And Nationwide refusing to even consider their mortgage application because of it? That's just cherry-picking πŸ’. I mean, the family has been paying on time for months now, but no one seems to care about that part. They're still getting judged and penalized for something that was completely out of their hands. It's like they're being punished for not having superhuman strength to deal with a life-altering illness πŸ€•.

I don't get why banks can't just have an "exceptional circumstances" clause or something πŸ“. You'd think it'd be easier for them to understand that sometimes, people are just struggling and need a little help. But nope, they're stuck in this never-ending cycle of debt and stress, all thanks to some outdated credit scoring system πŸ’Έ. It's so frustrating! 😀
 
This just breaks my heart πŸ˜”... A family going through so much grief losing their young son, and then being hit with this banking nightmare. I mean, can't Metro Bank just be understanding? They've been making all payments on time since April, but those late payment markers are still causing them stress 🀯. And now Nationwide won't even give them a chance to remortgage because of their credit file... it's just cruel 😩. What's the point of having a goodwill gesture if they're not going to take into account the circumstances? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ The Guardian is right, maybe they should wait until their finances recover, but that's no easy feat when you've already lost everything πŸ€•...
 
can you even believe this? 🀯 metro bank is literally killing these people with this late payment nonsense! 😑 i mean, come on, a guy's dying from an illness and his family is struggling to cope... do they really expect them to get their act together and make all payments on time just so metro bank can remove some stupid late payment markers? πŸ™„ it's like the bank is more concerned with their own bookkeeping than with helping people in need. πŸ˜” the guardian is right, of course - don't make a new mortgage application when you're already struggling to breathe... i feel for this family so much πŸ€•
 
Ugh πŸ€• this is just heartbreaking πŸ˜”. I mean, I get it, banks have rules and all that, but come on πŸ™„. A family dealing with the loss of a child and trying to cope with their grief? You'd think they could get some slack on that front. It's like, don't they know they're already stressed out enough? 😩 And then to be told they can't even remortgage their house because of late payments from months ago? It's just cruel 😀. I mean, what's the point of having a goodwill gesture if it doesn't actually do anything? πŸ™ƒ They should at least try to work with the family, you know? Offer some flexibility or something. This is just so unfair πŸ’”.
 
this is so messed up 🀯, can't imagine how hard it must be for them to deal with not just losing their son but also having to fight for something as simple as clearing a credit file...metro bank's decision seems so heartless πŸ’”...shouldn't the bank have taken into consideration the circumstances surrounding those late payments? 😑
 
OMG u gotta feel so bad for dis fam πŸ€•... I mean i no its not right dat Metro Bank wont just lift da late pay marker cuz dey fell behind wif payments wen de boy was sick πŸ€’ & all... but at da same time, can u blame dem 4 wanting to keep an eye on who's makin' payments on time? πŸ’Έ

Anway, its so unfair dat Nationwide also didnt wanna take a chance on dem cuz dey were "waiting" for dair finances 2 recover πŸ™„... I mean whats da point of waitin if u can get a loan @ a lower rate wif Metro Bank? πŸ’ΈπŸ’ΈπŸ’Έ

I feel like i no how u guys be feelin, its not easy losin someone u love & den havin 2 deal wif all dis other stress πŸ€•... sorry fam, just hopin its gets sorted out soon πŸ‘
 
Man, this is so unfair 🀯. I mean, imagine dealing with one of life's toughest challenges and then having another hurdle like this? It's just too much for any family to handle. Metro Bank should really be more understanding, you know? They had proof that the payments were late due to health issues, not because they were being irresponsible. And Nationwide didn't even have access to all that info! πŸ’Έ It's like they're just adding insult to injury. The family is already grieving and struggling to cope with their loss, and now this credit score thing is just making things worse πŸ˜”.
 
omg its so unfair!! 🀯 i mean whats even the point of having good payments if metro bank dont even care about ur situation?! 😑 this family was already goin thru hell with their son's illness and now they gotta deal w/ all these credit issues? its like metro bank is just addin to their pain πŸ€• u would think dey would be all sympathetic & help out, especially since dey were good payments afterwards πŸ’Έ but noooo, dey jus keep on refusin & causin stress 😩 the guardian was right tho, waitin till finances recover makes sense πŸ™ hope dey can get thru dis tough time 🀞
 
😩 this is so unfair 🀯 metro bank should be more understanding when it comes to families dealing with life's toughest moments πŸ™ a late payment marker on someone's credit file can have long-lasting effects πŸ’Έ and in this case, it's literally making it harder for the family to cope with their grief 😒 they didn't just fall behind on payments, they were struggling to care for their son during his final year of life πŸ€• Nationwide being too cautious isn't helping either πŸ™„
 
Wow 🀯 this is so harsh 😞 metro bank should really understand what's going on here πŸ™ they have all the info about the family's situation yet they just won't budge πŸ’” removing those late payment markers would be a huge help to their financial situation and stress levels 😌
 
Ugh, another crappy bank 🀯. I mean, come on, Metro Bank! You're supposed to be helping people in need, not making things worse for them when they're already going through a tough time. It's like you're just adding insult to injury... or should I say, late payment to credit score πŸ˜’. The family is going through a nightmare with the loss of their son, and you're treating them like they owe you money? Unbelievable! And Nationwide not even considering their application because of this? That's just great πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ. Can't these banks just show some compassion and common sense for once? πŸ€”
 
Ugh 😩 this is so unfair πŸ’” Metro Bank's decision is just making things harder for an already heartbroken family πŸ€• Their loss of their son in July was devastating enough, now they have to deal with banking woes too πŸ“ˆ It's not like they're trying to be dishonest or anything, they were genuinely struggling with his illness and had a bad patch where they fell behind on payments πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ But for Metro Bank to refuse to remove the late payment markers is just rubbing salt in their wounds πŸ’” Nationwide refusing to remortgage them because of their credit score is just cruel 😑 The family needs to focus on healing, not dealing with financial stress too πŸ’•
 
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