Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

As we mourn the loss of our beloved pets, it's natural to wonder why humans bury their deceased loved ones in cemeteries. After all, pets are not human beings, yet their owners still feel a deep sense of loss and grief when they pass away.

The establishment of public pet cemeteries, such as Barcelona's new initiative, has sparked interest in how our attitudes towards the afterlife have changed over time. In Britain's Hyde Park Pet Cemetery, established in 1881, we find graves marked with epitaphs like "loving friend" and "devoted companion." This indicates that pets were once viewed as cherished companions rather than just animals.

However, by the early 20th century, pet owners began to consider their animals as members of the family. Gravestones from this era feature loving epitaphs written by "Mummy and Daddy," a testament to the changing relationships between humans and animals.

Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, has studied historic gravestones and epitaphs in Britain. He discovered that some pet cemeteries featured epitaphs referencing reunions with pets in the afterlife, like the one for Denny, a brave little cat buried in an east London cemetery in 1952. The epitaph reads "God bless until we meet again." This highlights the emotional bond between humans and animals.

Today, as we look to modern mourning practices, it's striking how similar these rituals are to those used when grieving human relationships. The pain of losing a pet can be just as overwhelming, yet we often struggle to express our emotions publicly. Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling services to support bereaved humans.

The establishment of public pet cemeteries in cities like Barcelona will not only provide a space for owners to grieve but also serve as a reflection of society's growing acceptance of human-animal relationships. At an estimated €200 per service, it is essential to acknowledge that this opportunity may not be accessible to all pet owners.

As we move forward, online forums and digital pet cemeteries offer alternative ways to commemorate relationships and express grief. Ultimately, whether one chooses a traditional cemetery or another form of memorialization, there are many acceptable ways to honor the bond between humans and animals in our lives.
 
so sad 🐾💔 its like we treat our pets differently than we do ourselves when they die. some people say pets r just animals but i think thats an easy way out. i mean my friend lost her cat last year and she was literally crying for weeks. shes still talking about it.
 
I think it's really sad that some people can't afford €200 to bury their pet in a proper cemetery 🐾💔. I mean, it's not just about the money, but also about showing respect for the animal's life and the bond you shared with them 🤗.

I wonder if we'll see more online options become popular as people struggle to express their grief publicly 📊. Maybe we can start a new trend where digital pet memorials are just as beautiful and meaningful as traditional ones 💻.

It's also interesting to think about how our attitudes towards animals have changed over time 🐾. From being seen as just pets to being viewed as part of the family, it's clear that humans and animals have a special connection 💕.
 
I mean, it's crazy how pets have become such a big part of our families 🤯. I still get emotional thinking about my furry friends who've passed on... my cat, Luna, was like family to me 🐱. It's awesome that public pet cemeteries are popping up, giving owners a place to grieve and remember their loved ones. I think it's because we're realizing how much joy pets bring to our lives 💕. The epitaphs on the graves in Hyde Park Pet Cemetery? So sweet! "Loving friend" and "devoted companion"... exactly what I'd want people to say about Luna 🙏. And yeah, online forums and digital cemeteries are great too... not everyone can afford a traditional one 😔. Whatever way we choose to honor our pets' memories, it's all good 💗
 
I'm feeling kinda weird about this... 🤔 Like, pets aren't people, but we're making these cemeteries just like they are? It's crazy how much we humanize them, though. I mean, who needs a traditional burial when you can have a digital pet cemetery or online memorial? It's all about acceptance, right? But €200 for a service is pretty steep... 🤑 Not everyone can afford to grieve in style. And what about the ones who don't have the resources or space for a physical cemetery? Maybe we should be exploring more inclusive options for honoring our furry friends. The Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center are doing some amazing work, but we need more support. 💕
 
🐱💔 I mean, come on... we're basically treating pets like family members now? Like, who needs personal space when you've got a cute furry face to gush about? 😂 But seriously, it's kinda sweet that people are creating pet cemeteries and whatnot. I guess it shows how our perception of animals has shifted from just being pets to, like, actual companions. 🤷‍♀️ And yeah, the whole "loving friend" and "devoted companion" thing is pretty adorable. Can you imagine having a grave with your cat's name on it? 🚮💀
 
[Image of a cat sitting on a gravestone with a ribbon tied around it 😊]

[Gravestones from historic pet cemeteries featuring epitaphs like "loving friend" and "devoted companion"... just cats in the background 😹]

[Image of Eric Tourigny looking confused 🤔, with a cat on his lap saying "I told you so" 😸]

[Charities offering counseling services for pet loss... while I'm over here eating Cheetos 🧀👍]

[Barcelona's public pet cemetery: because who needs therapy when you have a cat-shaped bench to cry on? 🏰😹]
 
I think it's so beautiful that people are creating these public pet cemeteries 🐾💕. It shows how strong the bond is between us and our furry friends. I mean, we lose them too soon 💔, but at least now they have a special place to rest in peace 🌼. It's like we're saying "thank you" for all the love and memories they gave us ❤️. And yeah, it's interesting how our attitudes towards pets have changed over time... from just being animals to being part of the family 🤝. But I think it's awesome that we can still express our grief and celebrate their lives in so many ways 🎉.
 
I'm so moved by the new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐾💔. It's crazy how much we've shifted from just seeing pets as animals to considering them part of the family 💕. I mean, think about it - epitaphs like "loving friend" and "devoted companion" are still being used today? It shows how much love and loyalty we put into those furry friends 🐶🐱.

And let's be real, online forums and digital pet cemeteries are a game-changer for people who can't afford or access traditional cemeteries 💻. I think it's so cool that charities like the Blue Cross are offering counseling services to help with pet loss grief 🌟. It just goes to show how much we care about our animals and want to honor their memory in a way that feels meaningful to us ❤️.

I'm excited to see more cities setting up public pet cemeteries - it's like, finally acknowledging that pets are more than just pets, you know? 🎉 They're family members who bring so much joy and love into our lives 💖.
 
🐈💔 I think it's so cool how pets were once considered just animals but now we treat them like family members. Like, I remember my grandma used to tell me that her dog was part of the family 🐶. It's crazy how much our attitudes towards animals have changed over time. And I love how some pet cemeteries even have epitaphs about reunions in the afterlife - it's like we're all connected on a deeper level than just species-wise. But what's up with the prices? €200 is kinda steep for something that's supposed to be for sentimental value 😐
 
I'm totally feeling for these pet owners! Losing a fur baby is never easy 🐾💔. It's amazing how much we've come to value the companionship and love that pets bring into our lives. I mean, think about it - we're now even setting up public pet cemeteries in cities like Barcelona? It just goes to show how much we care (and should care) about those little critters 🤗.

And can we talk about the epitaphs on their graves for a sec? "Loving friend", "devoted companion"... it's so clear that back then, people genuinely saw pets as part of the family 👪. Now, with online forums and digital pet cemeteries popping up, it's all about giving them a proper sendoff too 📸.

It's crazy how our attitudes towards grief have shifted over time. We're more accepting now of those emotional bonds between humans and animals... but let's be real - some people still struggle to talk about their feelings 💔. I guess that's why charities like the Blue Cross are doing amazing work, offering counseling services to support pet owners through tough times 🙏.

But honestly? Whatever form of memorialization you choose (online or offline), it's all about honoring those precious moments we shared with our furry friends ❤️.
 
I saw this thread about public pet cemeteries but only now getting around to commenting 🙄🐾 I think it's awesome that we're seeing a shift in how people view their pets as more than just animals. I mean, who hasn't felt that deep connection with their furry friend at some point? For me, losing my cat was like losing a family member... I remember being so overwhelmed and not knowing how to process my emotions 🤯.

I love that these public pet cemeteries are offering a space for owners to grieve in a more public way. It's still crazy to think about how expensive it is though... €200 is like, a lot of money 🤑. But I guess it's an investment in showing our pets the respect and love they deserve.

I also appreciate that there are charities and online forums offering support for people who have lost their pets. It's not just about mourning the loss of a pet, but also finding ways to celebrate the time you had with them 🎉.
 
I don't get why people are making such a big deal about this new pet cemetery thingy. I mean, it's just a place for people to bury their pets, right? 🤷‍♂️ It's not like we're gonna start putting up statues of dogs and cats in the middle of streets or something. But seriously, what's next? Are we gonna start building dog parks as mausoleums too? 🐾💀 And €200 for a service? That's just ridiculous. Who can afford that? Just use the internet to post a few sad memes about your pet and call it a day. Online forums are where it's at, IMO 😂.
 
omg i'm literally so down for public pet cemeteries rn 🤩🐾 they're like, super underrated but pets really do feel like part of the fam 💕 anyway it's wild how attitudes towards pets have changed over time... from just being seen as animals to actual family members 🙌 and now we've got these awesome places where people can grieve in peace 🌳💔 i mean yeah it's gonna be pricey €200 is a lot but like, who doesn't want to say goodbye to their furry bestie with a proper memorial? 🎭✨
 
🐾💔😢[A picture of a cat sitting on a grave with a tombstone that reads "I'm paws-itive I'll see you again"]

🌎💕😊[A GIF of a person hugging their pet, then the pet running away and coming back to hug them]

😂🤣🐶[A meme of a dog crying on its human's grave with the caption "I'm paws-itively heartbroken"]

📝💭🌸[A picture of a notebook with notes about remembering loved ones, but with animal pictures instead of humans]
 
So you're saying that just 'cause pets aren't human don't mean they shouldn't get some love & respect after they pop their clogs? 🐾💔 I'm all for giving pet owners a space to grieve, but €200 per service is kinda steep, y'know? It's like, we gotta make sure everyone can pay their respects, not just the ones with deep pockets. And what about all the people who can't afford it? Do they have to choose between burying their furry friend or having a proper sendoff? 🤔 We should be talkin' about how we can make pet cemeteries more accessible to everyone, not just makin' 'em super exclusive.
 
idk wot's goin on w/ pet cemeteries lol 🤷‍♀️. its like wer all startin 2 think owt pets r more than jus animals. i mean, who says paws cnt b considered family members? 😂 they got gravestones w/ names lik "lovin friend" & "devoted companion" - thats so adorbs! 🐾💕 but like whats da diff btw humans n pets? we both feel pain wen we lose sum1. online forums r a good alt too, not everyone can afford them tho €200 is a lil steep 4 me 😒
 
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