Opinion: ‘Until we meet again, brave little cat.’ The heartbreak and taboo of burying our pets | CNN

The ritual of burying our dearly departed pets is a peculiar yet poignant custom that reflects our changing attitudes towards human-animal relationships over time. What sets pet cemeteries apart from traditional human burial grounds, however, is the emotional complexity and depth of attachment we form with our non-human companions.

While it's understandable to view pet burial as an intimate cultural practice that evolves in tandem with societal norms, some questions remain unanswered - such as why do we bury animals when their human counterparts are often laid to rest in a cemetery? One possible explanation lies in the way we perceive and express grief for different species. According to Eric Tourigny, a lecturer in historical archaeology, the growing recognition of pets as integral members of families has led to an increase in pet cemeteries across Europe and North America.

The Spanish city of Barcelona is set to establish its first public pet cemetery next year, providing both burial and cremation services for approximately 7,000 animals annually. This development is a nod to the rising awareness that pets are not just beloved companions but also individuals with their own unique characteristics and emotional resonance in our lives.

Historical records reveal that even in the late 19th century, people often disposed of dead pets by dumping them into rivers or selling their bodies for meat and skin. This highlights how far our attitudes towards pet burial have come, as we now prioritize personal plots, gravestones, and dedicated spaces to honor the memories of our departed companions.

By examining historic pet cemeteries in Britain, Tourigny found that epitaphs from the 19th century often referred to pets as "loving friends" or "devoted companions," while those written later emphasized a reunion with their beloved animals. This shift in language and sentiment underscores the evolution of human-animal relationships over time.

The similarity between modern pet cemeteries and historical practices lies not only in the reverence we pay to our deceased pets but also in the heartbreak and taboos surrounding grief for non-human companions. Despite growing recognition of the importance of human-animal bonds, there remains a lingering stigma around openly acknowledging these emotions - as if doing so might incur social repercussions.

Charities like the Blue Cross and Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offer counseling to bereaved pet owners in the UK, reassuring individuals that they should not feel ashamed for their grief. The estimated €200 per service cost of Barcelona's new cemetery may make it inaccessible to some pet owners, but this highlights the need for more affordable options to honor our lost companions.

Ultimately, whether we opt for a pet cemetery or explore alternative ways to commemorate our relationship with animals, there is no denying that the bond between humans and non-human beings holds significant emotional value.
 
I'm all about those pet cemeteries 🌼🐾 - they're like, totally a reflection of how we feel about our furry (and scaly, and feathered) friends! I mean, think about it, we used to just dump our dead pets in rivers or sell their bodies for meat... talk about a huge shift in attitude 😲. It's all about acknowledging that animals have personalities, emotions, and memories too.

I'm curious though, why do people still bury animals when humans are often just laid to rest in a regular cemetery? 🤔 Maybe it's because we perceive grief differently for different species? I don't know, but one thing's for sure - pet cemeteries are becoming more mainstream, and that's awesome 💕. Barcelona is even getting its own public pet cemetery next year! 🎉

It's wild to think about how language and sentiment around pets have evolved over time. Like, "loving friend" or "devoted companion"... those are some serious labels 🐾💗. And yeah, there's still that stigma around openly acknowledging our emotions for non-human companions... but charities like the Blue Cross are working to break that down 💖.

Anyway, I think pet cemeteries are a great way to honor our memories of our beloved pets. Whether you choose a cemetery or not, it's all about celebrating those special bonds we share with animals 🐾💕.
 
I'm thinking, people are really showing some love to their furry friends now... 🐾💕 Like, who wouldn't want to pay €200 for a proper burial plot for their pet? It's not like we're just treating them like objects or anything! 🙅‍♀️ But seriously, it's cool that there are charities and stuff like the Rainbow Bridge Pet Loss Grief Center offering support to people going through the loss of their pets. I mean, grieving is hard no matter what species you're dealing with... 😔 It's interesting to see how our attitudes towards animals have changed over time, from just seeing them as companions to recognizing their individuality and emotional value. 🤯 Maybe it's not so weird that people are building special cemeteries for their pets after all... 🌳
 
I'm like totally fascinated by this trend of pet cemeteries! It's crazy how far our attitudes have come from just dumping dead pets in rivers or selling their bodies for meat 🤯. I mean, think about it - we now prioritize having our own special plots and gravestones to honor our furry friends 💔. And the language people use is changing too - instead of just saying "loving friend" or "devoted companion", they're actually talking about the emotional bond we share with our pets ❤️.

But what really gets me is how stigmatized grief can be for non-human companions 🤔. Like, why do we still feel like it's weird to show our emotions for animals? It's not like humans are treated any differently when they lose a loved one 💀. And yeah, the fact that some pet cemeteries are super pricey is a bummer - I guess we just need more affordable options to make it accessible to everyone 🤑.

Anyway, I'm all about celebrating those human-animal relationships and giving our pets the respect (and plots) they deserve 🐾💫.
 
OMG I'm like totally obsessed with this new pet cemetery in Barcelona 🐾🌊 7k animals annually get a spot to rest in peace & it's like so cool! 🤩 We used to just dump them in rivers or sell their bodies... can you even imagine? 😷 It's amazing how far we've come in recognizing our pets as more than just companions. The whole thing is just so emotional & I love that people are finally acknowledging grief for non-human friends 💔 They gotta make it more affordable tho, €200 is like $$$ 🤑
 
ugh it's so sad how ppl used 2 just dumpin their pets in rivers or sellin them 4 food 🐕😔 like, who does that?! and now we have pet cemeteries where people can actually say goodbye to their furry friends with dignity & respect 💀🐾 it's crazy how far our attitudes towards animals have come, but still some ppl feel ashamed 2 be emotional about losin them 🤷‍♀️ like, pets r part of the fam, too! and yeah, €200 might be a lil steep 4 some people, but at least they're tryin 2 make it more accessible 💕
 
[GIF of a cat in a coffin with a tombstone reading "I'm not dead, I'm just paws-itively resting"] 🐈😸

[Image of a dog owner visiting a pet cemetery with a gravestone that says "Forever in our hearts"] 🐶❤️

[A picture of a person holding a pet's paw print with the words "It's okay to grieve" written above it] 💔🌱

[GIF of a family saying goodbye to their deceased dog at a beach, with a caption "Pet loss is real, folks"] 🏖️😢
 
I don't think it's weird that people wanna bury their pets... 🤔 I mean, dogs are like family members too, right? They bring so much joy & love into our lives, it's only natural we want to say goodbye in a special way 😊. And yeah, traditional human cemeteries might not be the same, but maybe that's why pet cemeteries exist - to help us process our feelings in a different way 💔. Like, who says humans are more important than animals? 🐾💕
 
🐾💔 I think it's super cool that pet cemeteries are becoming more mainstream now 🤩, but like, isn't it kinda weird that we need a separate place for our pets after they pass away? Like, if my human was gone, I'd want to be with them in heaven or wherever, you know? 💕

And omg, the fact that people used to just dump their dead pets in rivers or sell them for meat is just wild 🤯. It's crazy how far we've come in recognizing our pets as part of our families ❤️.

I feel like it's kinda ironic that there are still some pet owners who might be ashamed to admit they're grieving, though 😔. Like, shouldn't we be able to acknowledge and honor our emotions for our furry friends without judgment? 🤷‍♀️

But yeah, having a dedicated space for pets to rest in peace is really special 💆‍♀️. It's like we're saying that their love and companionship were just as important as ours 😊. Can't wait to see the Barcelona pet cemetery open next year 🎉!
 
🐾💔 I think its pretty cool how pet cemeteries are becoming more popular - it shows that people really care about their furry friends. But yeah, €200 a pop for a burial plot might be out of reach for some families... like what if we could find ways to make these services more affordable? 🤔 Maybe they could offer payment plans or something? It's not just about honoring our pets, but also making sure that everyone can do so in a way that feels right for them. And you know, I'm curious - what are people going to write on the gravestones and epitaphs? Will it be "RIP Fido" or something more poetic? 🤷‍♀️
 
I don’t usually comment but I think it’s really cool that Barcelona is getting its own public pet cemetery 🐾💔. It’s crazy how far our attitudes towards burying pets have come, you know? Like, back in the day people were just dumping them in rivers or selling their bodies for meat and skin 😓. And now we're over here paying €200 a pop to give our furry friends a proper sendoff 💸. I guess it shows how much we value those relationships, even if it's not always socially accepted 🤷‍♂️. It’s also wild that pet cemeteries are getting more mainstream recognition and services - like, did you know there are counseling services for pet owners in the UK too? 🧝‍♀️💕
 
I mean, come on... €200 for a burial plot? That's crazy expensive! I get why people want to honor their pets, but £150-£200 is just steep. What's next, charging them rent on the afterlife or something 😒. And don't even get me started on the stigma around pet loss... like, no, you shouldn't feel ashamed for grieving your furry (or scaly) friend 🤷‍♂️. Can't we just have some affordable options that still let people show their pets some respect? Like, a community garden or something, where people can plant a tree or a memorial in memory of their pet. That'd be way more low-key and accessible 🌱.
 
I think it's so sweet how pet cemeteries are popping up all over Europe and North America 🐾💕. It's amazing how much we've come to accept burying our furry friends as a way to honor their memory. I mean, remember when people used to just throw them away or sell their bodies for meat? 🙅‍♂️ That's how far we've come! The fact that charities are offering counseling services for pet owners who are grieving is just fantastic 💗.

The thing is, though, I do feel a bit bad for those who can't afford the €200 service fee. Pet cemeteries should be accessible to everyone, not just the wealthy 🤑. But hey, maybe this will spark a movement and make it more affordable in the future 🤞.

It's also really interesting how our language and attitudes towards grief have changed over time 📚. From "loving friends" to "devoted companions", it's clear that we've come to recognize the emotional depth of our relationships with animals 💬. And I think that's what makes pet cemeteries so special - they're not just for humans, but for all the non-human beings who bring joy and love into our lives 🌼.

So, what do you guys think? Are you for or against pet cemeteries? Do you have any thoughts on how we can make them more accessible to everyone? 🤔
 
I'm low-key impressed by how far we've come in treating our furry friends with respect. I mean, it's crazy to think about how back in the day, people just dumped their pets in rivers or sold them for food. But now, we're all about giving them a proper sendoff - complete with gravestones and whatnot! 🤣 It's actually pretty heartwarming to see pet cemeteries popping up everywhere. I'd love to visit one someday, even if it's just to pay my respects to Mr. Whiskers (RIP). The idea that charities are now offering grief counseling for pet owners is also super sweet - it shows we're finally getting comfortable with showing our emotions for our non-human loved ones 💕
 
🤔 I mean think about it, pet cemeteries are like a reflection of how far we've come in recognizing the importance of those furry friends in our lives 🐾❤️. But what's weird is that when we bury humans, it's not really an issue, right? We just put them in a box and forget about it. But animals? Oh no, they need special plots and gravestones 💀📚. It's like we're acknowledging that our emotional connection with them is different from the one with humans 🤝. And what's with all these cemeteries popping up everywhere? Is it just to make pet owners feel better about losing their best buds, or is there something more going on? 🤑 Maybe it's a way for us to control how much we grieve, like, if you bury your dog in a special spot, then you'll be okay with the fact that they're not coming back 😴.
 
The notion of pet cemeteries resonates deeply with me 🤔. It's intriguing to consider why our attachment to pets transcends traditional human burial practices 👻. Perhaps it's because we've come to realize that animals possess inherent qualities that distinguish them from humans, yet forge unbreakable bonds with us ❤️. The emotional complexity surrounding pet loss is undeniable, and I think it's high time we normalize our grief processes 🌈.

The fact that Barcelona is establishing a public pet cemetery highlights the growing recognition of pets as more than just companions, but individuals with their own stories to tell 💭. As we continue to evolve in our understanding of human-animal relationships, I'm optimistic about the future of pet cemeteries and other initiatives that cater to our emotional needs 🌼. Who's to say that creating a space for pets to rest is anything less than a testament to their significance in our lives? 🙏
 
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