The crying game: what Hamnet's grief-porn debate says about women, cinema – and enormous hawks

Grief in cinema: a delicate balance between emotional manipulation and profound truth.

Is grief-porn or is it art? The question seems to suggest that a film about grief can be either emotionally manipulative and formulaic or a deeply moving exploration of universal human emotions. While the distinction may seem clear-cut, the reality is more nuanced.

Recent films like Hamnet, H Is for Hawk, Tuesday, and The Thing with Feathers all deal with themes of loss and grief, but they approach these subjects in different ways. Hamnet, starring Jessie Buckley and Paul Mescal, is a dramatisation of Maggie O'Farrell's novel about the death of William Shakespeare's son. It's visually sumptuous and features brilliant performances from its leads. However, some critics argue that it relies too heavily on emotional manipulation to elicit a reaction from the audience.

In contrast, H Is for Hawk, directed by Lavinia Fox, is an adaptation of Helen Macdonald's memoir about her relationship with a goshawk. It's a more introspective and thoughtful film that explores themes of grief, nature, and identity. The use of birds as a symbol of death and transformation adds to the film's emotional impact.

Tuesday, starring Julia Louis-Dreyfus, is a comedy-drama that takes a more lighthearted approach to grief. While it tackles some heavy themes, its tone is generally lighter than other films on this list. The Thing with Feathers, directed by Ben Wheatley, is an adaptation of Max Porter's novella about a man who becomes obsessed with a crow. It's a more avant-garde film that explores the complexities of grief and masculinity.

One common thread among these films is the use of birds as a symbol of death and transformation. This motif adds to the emotional impact of each film, but it also raises questions about the role of nature in our lives. Are birds simply a source of fascination or can they be used to explore deeper themes?

Ultimately, whether a film is considered grief-porn or art depends on individual perspectives. Some may find that these films are emotionally manipulative and formulaic, while others may see them as profound explorations of human emotions. The key to appreciating these films lies in embracing the complexity of grief and its many forms.

For women, grief often takes on a particular form – it's intense, emotional, and deeply personal. However, this doesn't mean that men can't experience grief or that they don't have their own unique ways of processing emotions. The way that Chloé Zhao, director of Hamnet, has said that "feminine leadership" draws strength from intuition and community may be seen as circular, but it's also a reminder that women often find strength in relationships and interdependence.

In the end, whether a film is considered grief-porn or art depends on individual perspectives. What matters most is that we approach these films with empathy and an open mind. By doing so, we can appreciate the complexity of human emotions and the many ways that people experience grief.
 
I mean, I recently watched Hamnet and it was so emotionally charged, but at the same time, I felt like I was being hit over the head with a hammer 🤯. It's like, I get that grieving is intense and we need to feel all those emotions, but can't they just show us in a more subtle way? 🤔

And don't even get me started on Tuesday... it was so funny at times, but then you'd think something heavy would come up and it'd be like, "Oh wait, it's not that deep after all 😂". I mean, I guess that's just the way comedy-dramas work, but sometimes I feel like they're trying to tick all these boxes rather than really exploring anything meaningful 📚

But you know what? The Thing with Feathers was a total mind-bender and it made me think about grief in a whole new way. Those bird scenes were so haunting and beautiful... it's like, how can birds represent death and transformation at the same time? 🐦💀 I'm still thinking about that one.

And what's up with all these films having birds as a symbol of death and transformation? Is it just a coincidence or is there something deeper going on here? 🐦💭
 
I remember watching some movies back in the day where they just hit you right in the feels 😩... but sometimes I wonder if it's all just a bit too much 🤯. Like, Hamnet is so beautifully shot and the actors are amazing, but at the same time, it's just a bit of a tear-jerker, you know? And don't even get me started on Tuesday - it's like they're trying to make you laugh while simultaneously making you cry, which can be nice I guess, but sometimes too much of a good thing is... well, too much 🤪.

I'm more of a fan of the birds in The Thing with Feathers myself 🐦... I mean, have you seen that crow? It's like it's staring right at you, man 😱. And H Is for Hawk is just so peaceful and introspective, it's like watching a nature documentary or something 🌳.

I think what really gets to me about these movies is how they all deal with grief in different ways. Like, some of them are super emotional and dramatic, while others are more lighthearted and comedy-dramatic. And I'm just over here like, "Can't we just have a film that's a little bit of both? 🤷‍♀️".
 
I'm still thinking about that movie "Free Guy" I saw last week 🤔♂️ it's like how the main character finds out he's a non-playable character in this video game world, but what if we all feel like that sometimes? Like, our lives are just scripted or something. And then it makes me think about those movies you mentioned and how they're not just about grief, but also about being trapped or stuck somehow 🕸️. Like Hamnet's protagonist is stuck in this world without his dad, and H Is for Hawk's Helen is struggling to find her place after her mom passes away... it's like we're all searching for our own way out of some kind of emotional prison 🚫💔
 
I don't know about this new wave of grief movies 🤔... some of 'em feel like they're just trying to rip your heart out 🎭, but others... wow! They're so raw and honest it's like they're talkin' straight to ya 💬. I mean, have you seen H Is for Hawk? That film is like a punch in the gut - it's beautiful and brutal at the same time 😩. And don't even get me started on The Thing with Feathers... that one's like a wild rollercoaster ride of emotions 🎠.

I think what gets me about these films is how they're not afraid to explore the messy, complicated side of grief 💔. They're not just gonna give you some feel-good, cheesy moment and be done with it 😐. No way... they'll dive deep into the darkness and come out the other side with something truly powerful 🌟.

It's funny, though... when I was younger, we used to watch all these sappy rom-coms about grief and loss 💔, but they were always so formulaic and predictable 😒. But now, it seems like everyone's makin' their own version of these films - and some of 'em are actually pretty good 👏!
 
🐦 I think it's all about perspective 🤔. Grief-porn might be a good way to describe some movies that hit you right in the feels, but others... well, they're just masterfully crafted explorations of human emotions 💔. Like, H Is for Hawk is such a thoughtful and introspective film that I think it's all about how we approach nature and our place in it 🌿. And yeah, women often experience grief differently, but that doesn't mean men can't have their own unique ways of dealing with emotions too 🤝. What I love about films like Hamnet is that they show us how complex human emotions can be - no easy answers here 💭.
 
Grief in cinema - because who doesn't love watching a bunch of snot-nosed kids cry on screen? 🤣 It's like the cinematic equivalent of watching your grandma cry at a sad movie... but somehow, it's actually kinda relatable?

I mean, some films like Hamnet and H Is for Hawk are all about exploring the complexities of grief and loss. You know, the not-so-happy stuff that makes you go "awww, I'm a big ol' mess". But then there are others like Tuesday, which tries to tackle the same themes with a more... let's say, "cheery" tone.

And don't even get me started on the whole bird thing - it's like the filmmakers thought, "You know what would be super deep and meaningful? If we just use birds as a metaphor for death and transformation!" 🐦💀 I mean, come on. It's not like they're trying to make some profound statement or anything.

Anyway, at the end of the day, it all comes down to personal perspective. So, if you want to cry yourself to sleep every night watching Hamnet, be my guest. But if you prefer a good old-fashioned laugh, Tuesday might be more up your alley 😂.
 
🐦😵 I'm so done with this new study that says air pollution is killing 7 million people worldwide every year 🤕. That's like losing a whole city full of people every day. And it gets worse, the pollutants are mostly from burning fossil fuels and biomass, which means our reliance on coal and other dirty energy sources is literally killing us 💀.

And don't even get me started on climate change 🌡️. Rising sea levels, more frequent natural disasters, and devastating heatwaves are just a few of the consequences of inaction. It's like we're playing with fire and expecting to win 😒.

I'm also not buying into that new trend where people say they're "fine" when they're actually struggling 💔. Like, no, you're not fine. You're anxious, depressed, or just plain exhausted. Let's stop pretending everything is okay when it's far from it 🤯.

And have you seen the latest statistics on student loan debt? It's through the roof 📈. People are graduating with thousands of dollars in debt and barely scraping by. How are we supposed to move forward when we're all stuck in this cycle of financial insecurity? 😩

Ugh, just another day, another bad news story 😒.
 
the way they tackle grief in these movies is really nuanced - some are super emotional and manipulative, while others are more introspective and thoughtful 🤯 i mean, hamnet is just gorgeous to look at, but some critics say it's a bit formulaic... meanwhile, h is for hawk feels like it's saying something way deeper about nature and identity 💚 what really stands out to me is how the films use birds as this symbol of death and transformation - it's so fascinating! 🐦 and yeah, i think we need to be open-minded when watching these movies and try not to judge them based on our own experiences... grief is so individual, you know? 🤔
 
I'm low-key done with all this 'grief as art' nonsense 🙄. These movies are just manipulative attempts to tug at your heartstrings and make you feel like a sucker. I mean, come on, if you're gonna explore universal human emotions like grief, just do it in a way that's authentic and not try-hard 🤦‍♀️.

I don't get why people say Hamnet is too formulaic when it's actually pretty well-made. And H Is for Hawk? That film is all over the place, imo 🙃. It's like the director just threw a bunch of random thoughts together and hoped something would stick.

And don't even get me started on Tuesday being a 'lighthearted' take on grief... lol no, it's not lighthearted at all 💔. Julia Louis-Dreyfus is a genius for playing this role and owning every ounce of emotional pain she pours onto the screen.

As for The Thing with Feathers? Forget about it 😂, that film is like someone took a bunch of art school nonsense and turned it into a feature-length short 🎨.

The whole thing about women finding strength in relationships and community just feels like an obvious cop-out to me 🤷‍♀️. I mean, can't we have a more nuanced conversation about grief without resorting to tired feminist tropes?
 
I feel like some movies about grief are super intense and make you cry, but then there's others where it's more like, hey, life's not all bad even when you're feeling sad 💔🌞.

Like, have you seen Hamnet? It's so pretty to look at, but I've heard it can be a bit formulaic? And then there's H Is for Hawk which is more like, nature and grief and stuff... you know? 🦅💀

I think what makes these movies work is when they're honest about how people feel. Like, Julia Louis-Dreyfus in Tuesday she's not trying to sugarcoat anything, she's just being herself 🤣👏.

But at the same time, I get why some people might find it too much or heavy-handed? Like, do we really need a movie to tell us how grief feels? Can't we just feel it ourselves? 🤔

For me, it's all about finding the right balance between emotional truth and, you know, not being too dramatic 😅.
 
I watched The Thing with Feathers last night 🦊🎥 it was really weird but in a good way you know? Like how they use birds to represent death and transformation... it's like, super symbolic and stuff. I think what bothers me is when films just copy the same old grief tropes without adding anything new to the conversation. But at the same time, I think that's why these movies can be so impactful - because they make you feel all the feels 🤯. The way Chloé Zhao talks about feminine leadership and intuition really resonated with me too 💖 it's like we need more representation of women in positions of power behind the camera.
 
omg i just watched hamnet and i'm still reeling from the performance by jessie buckley 🤩 she's literally given me all my feelings 😭 the way they used nature in the film is so beautiful, it's like you can smell the garden where william shakespeare lived 🌼💚
 
idk about this whole "grief-porn" thing 🤔... i mean, if a film can make me cry and feel all the feels, is it bad? 🤷‍♀️ doesn't it have value just because it's trying to explore something real and relatable? 💭 but at the same time, don't we need films that can tackle this heavy stuff in a way that's not too sappy or formulaic? 🙄 i mean, some of these movies feel like they're trying too hard to be emotional manipulators, while others are more nuanced and thoughtful... 🤔 what's the line between catharsis and exploitation? 💀 can we just appreciate films for what they do well without judging them based on their themes or tone? 🎥 maybe it's not about whether a film is "grief-porn" or art, but rather how we approach each one with empathy and understanding... 🤝
 
🤔 I'm not sure if these recent films are truly exploring universal human emotions or just exploiting them for emotional manipulation 🎬. Like, is Hamnet really a deeply moving portrayal of Shakespeare's son's death, or is it just a beautifully shot drama that happens to deal with grief? 🌟 And don't even get me started on the whole "feminine leadership" thing - I mean, if Chloé Zhao is saying that women find strength in community and intuition, but then her film about Shakespeare's son's death is basically just a dude crying all over the place... isn't that kinda contradictory? 😂.
 
I mean, what's up with all these movies about grief? They're just gonna make you feel bad, you know? 🤕 Some of them are super emotional and manipulative, like they're trying to guilt trip you into feeling sorry for the characters or something. And then there are others that are just...different. Like Tuesday, which is a comedy-drama about grief? That's just weird.

And don't even get me started on the whole bird thing. I mean, what's up with that? It's like, birds are just symbols of death and transformation or whatever. Can't we just talk about actual human emotions for once? But hey, if you're into that sorta thing, go ahead and watch 'em all.

I guess what I'm saying is, it's all just a bit too much sometimes. We need to take a step back and think about why we're watching these movies in the first place. Is it to feel bad for ourselves? To explore our own emotions? Or is it just because they're popular and everyone else is doing it?

Anyway, I'm gonna go watch something else that doesn't make me cry myself to sleep at night 😴
 
I mean, have you seen Hamnet? It's like, really pretty but also kinda formulaic, right? 🤔 I get why some ppl might say it's all about getting an emotional reaction from u, but for me, it's more than that. The performances are incredible tho! 😍 And H Is for Hawk is on a whole other level - it's like, so thoughtful and introspective. The way they use the goshawk as a symbol of death and transformation? 🐦 Mind blown. But what really got me thinking is how these films approach grief differently. Like, Tuesday is all light-hearted, but still tackles some heavy stuff. And The Thing with Feathers is just so... avant-garde. I mean, who wouldn't be obsessed with a crow? 🕊️ Anyway, what matters most is that we're having this convo and appreciating the complexity of human emotions. 💬
 
You know what I think 🤔? Grief in cinema is all about finding that delicate balance between being emotionally raw and hitting you right in the feels 💔. Some films like Hamnet are super dramatic and might feel a bit formulaic, but that doesn't mean they're not powerful - it's just how your brain processes them 🤯. Meanwhile, others like H Is for Hawk are so introspective and thoughtful, exploring themes of nature & identity in such depth 🌿. The way these films approach grief is what makes them special, not the labels we slap on 'em 📦. For me, it's about empathy & understanding - if you can connect with a film's emotions, that's all that matters ❤️ #GriefInCinema #EmotionalBalance #FilmAppreciation
 
🤔 I think some movies about grief are way too sappy, you know? 🙅‍♂️ Like they're trying to manipulate us into feeling all the feels instead of just being honest with themselves. But then again, other times they really do get it right and show how messy and complicated grief can be 💔. It's like the filmmakers are saying "this is what I'm going through" but also "here's some stuff you might not have thought about before". 🌿
 
I feel like all these films about grief are really hitting close to home right now 🤯🎥 I mean, who hasn't lost someone or had to deal with the pain of saying goodbye? It's so relatable, but at the same time it can be super triggering 😓. I think that's why some people might call them "grief-porn" - they're just too real, you know? 🤪 But for me, when done right, a film about grief can be incredibly powerful and cathartic 💔. It's like we're given permission to feel our emotions and process them in a healthy way... even if it feels uncomfortable at first 😬
 
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