The Rise and Fall of the World's Largest Gay Dating App

China's Blued, once the world's largest gay dating app, has been largely shut down by Beijing authorities in what appears to be a growing crackdown on queer spaces in the country.

In 2012, Li Keqiang, China's then-executive vice premier, shook hands with Ma Baoli, the founder of Blued, at an event. That meeting served as proof that Blued was not a platform for outcasts but one worth recognizing and investing in.

Blued was born out of an even longer-surviving gay online forum, making it a remarkable example of how skillful "dancers" like Ma navigate the delicate game of controlling what's allowed on the Chinese internet.

However, Blued's fate reflects that of many tech companies in China, where failure can be catastrophic due to government crackdowns.

The book profiles several other dancers, including those who quit after they could no longer tolerate censorship and those who fled the country after watching peers get arrested.

The author views "dancing out" - moving away from power centers like Beijing and Shanghai - as a form of passive resistance.
 
πŸ€• China's Blued shutting down is super sad, feels like the govt is just trying to erase the LGBTQ+ community πŸ˜”. I mean, think about it, in 2012 Li Keqiang was already getting all warm and fuzzy with Ma Baoli, but now its like they're trying to snuff out the progress 🚫. The way Blued was able to navigate the internet landscape and become a major player is still pretty impressive, but I guess when you're living in a country where one wrong move can mean catastrophic consequences, you gotta be super careful πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ.

I'm reading this book about other tech companies that have had similar experiences and its like, wow, the only way to survive in China's internet landscape is to just "dance out" and leave πŸ˜“. Its not exactly a radical move, but I guess when you're talking about your life and freedom, sometimes that's all you can do πŸ’”. The author makes this point about how passive resistance is still a form of resistance, even if its not the most proactive one πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ.
 
I cant believe its 2025 and China's shutting down Blued lol what happened to that app 🀯 it was like the OG gay dating app back in the day remember when your uncle would say "go talk to the nice chinese boys on Blued"? anyway i guess thats the price they pay for playing with fire πŸ•―οΈ governments can be super strict and it looks like china's just trying to keep things under control. its weird tho because blued was actually supposed to help people connect and stuff but now its being shut down? that just seems so wrong πŸ€”
 
πŸ€• This is so messed up! I mean, can't they just let people be themselves online? It's not like Blued was causing any harm or promoting anything bad... just allowing people to connect with each other. 🚫 And now it's all being shut down? That's just cruel.

And what about all the people who've been using the app, like my friends from China? They were probably hoping for a safe space to express themselves online. Now they're stuck with nothing. πŸ˜” I don't get why the government is so against queerness... it just seems so... outdated.

This whole thing is really sad πŸ€• and I'm all for passive resistance, but some of these dancers are already super cautious because of the gov's constant crackdowns. It's like they're living in fear 24/7... no wonder they want to "dance out". πŸ’ƒπŸ»πŸ˜¨
 
i'm so shocked by this news 🀯 china's move to shut down blued is literally sending shockwaves through the lgbtq+ community around the world! how can they just do that? it's like, they're taking away this platform that gave so many people a space to be themselves and connect with others. i feel bad for ma baoli and all the other ppl who risked everything to create and run blued πŸ€• what's next? will we see more queer apps get shut down too? 🚫😬
 
😱 this is so sad news πŸ€• I mean, can't they just let people be themselves? Blued was a platform for so many to connect and express themselves, it's like they're erasing all that. It's not fair to the ppl who used it to find love and community πŸ’”
 
Ugh, can you believe what's happening to Blued πŸ€•? It was like, this amazing space for people to connect and feel seen, you know? And now it's just...gone πŸ’”. I mean, I get that the gov's gotta regulate stuff, but come on! They're basically shutting down an entire platform where people could be themselves without fear of persecution πŸ˜’.

I'm also super bummed because Blued was more than just a dating app - it was a symbol of hope and resilience for so many queer folks in China. I mean, think about all the people who found love and community on that app πŸ’•. And now it's just...lost forever 🌫️.

And what really gets me is how this reflects the struggles of so many other tech companies in China. It's like, they're playing this delicate game where if you step outta line, you get crushed πŸ’₯. I don't blame anyone who had to leave the country after watching their friends get arrested - it's not worth it, you know? πŸ€—
 
OMG, this is soooo sad! I mean, I knew china was being super strict about its gay scene but i never thought it would affect blued that much πŸ€•. It's crazy to think about how one handshake with Li Keqiang made blued legit and now it's literally SHUT DOWN πŸ’”. It makes sense tho that tech companies in china have to be super careful 'cause the gov can just shut them down at any moment 🚫. I've heard of people getting arrested for being part of online forums and stuff, so it's not like they're taking risks by shutting blued down 😱. I feel bad for ma baoli and everyone else who lost their platform because of this... maybe they'll start a new app or something πŸ’ͺ!
 
πŸš¨πŸ’” OMG you guys I just saw this news about China's Blued dating app being shut down by Beijing authorities 🀯 it's like they're really trying to erase the queer community in china 😱 and now it makes me super anxious thinking about all these people who can't express themselves online anymore 🌧️ i mean, isn't tech supposed to be all about freedom of expression? πŸ€” it's like they're saying "dancing out" is a form of resistance but what if you don't have anywhere else to go? πŸƒβ€β™€οΈ it's just so worrying thinking about these "dancers" who got forced out because of the government πŸ˜“
 
omg this is so sad πŸ€• china's gotta protect its citizens but shutting down blued feels like they're erasing an entire community πŸ’” i've heard rumors that ma baoli, the founder, has gone into hiding... that's some crazy stuff going on πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ i feel for all the people who were using blued to connect and be themselves πŸ‘«πŸŒˆ
 
man I'm literally shocked 😱 this is what's happening to Blued which was like a beacon of hope for the LGBTQ+ community in China 🌈 it's so disheartening to think that all those people who used the app were just trying to find love and connect with others but now they're being shut down by the government 🚫 I mean can you even imagine having to live in fear of getting arrested or kicked out just for existing 🀯 as for Ma Baoli, dude what did he do wrong? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ was he really that bad? πŸ€” and now people are saying it's all about "controlling the internet" πŸ“Š like who gets to decide what's allowed online anyway? πŸ™„
 
omg, can you even believe what's happening to Blued 🀯? I mean, they were literally a platform for gay people in china to connect with each other, find community and stuff. now it's just... shut down πŸ’”. like, what's the point of even having a dating app if you're not gonna let people be themselves?! πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ it's crazy how easily china's government can silence these kinds of platforms. I feel so bad for the ppl who used to use Blued and now they can't anymore πŸ€• anyway, i guess this just goes to show how hard it is for tech companies in china to operate without govt interference πŸ€”.
 
πŸ˜” this is so sad to hear about Blued being shut down... it's like all their hard work just went up in smoke πŸ’₯ they were this huge platform for queer people to connect, and now it's like that connection is being severed 🚫 what's going on in China, right? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ i mean, the book says they're cracking down on 'queer spaces', but it feels like they're just silencing anyone who's different... doesn't that go against everything we value as a society? πŸ€”
 
I'm kinda surprised by this news, you know? Like, I've been hearing about Blued for ages and it was always seen as this cool app that helped people find their community online πŸ€—. But now it's shut down? That's like, super harsh, especially considering how much it did to help queer folks in China.

I mean, I can understand why the gov's would be uncomfortable with all that "queer" stuff, but shutting down an app just 'cause is kinda extreme, right? It's like they're trying to erase these people's identities or something. πŸ€”

And it makes me think about how we deal with online freedom in our own country. Like, do we really value having the internet where we can express ourselves freely or are we more worried about "keeping things safe"? 😬
 
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