Video New year, new dating trends: Tips for those searching for love in the new year

As the clock struck midnight on New Year's Eve, millions of people worldwide bid farewell to the old year and welcomed the fresh start that comes with a new one. Amidst this backdrop, many are taking to online dating platforms or social clubs in search of love, often with mixed results.

According to Maria Avgitidis, a renowned matchmaker, the modern dating scene has undergone significant transformations over the past few years. One trend that stands out is the growing emphasis on authenticity. In an age where people feel pressured to present a curated online persona, Avgitidis stresses the importance of being genuine in online profiles.

"When I see someone who genuinely portrays themselves online, it's so much more attractive than someone faking it," she says. "People want to connect with real people, not just a highlight reel." This shift towards authenticity is not only evident on dating apps but also extends to social clubs and groups. Avgitidis advises those searching for love to venture beyond the comfort zone of online dating and join groups that align with their interests.

For instance, joining book clubs, sports teams, or hiking groups can be an excellent way to meet like-minded individuals. "The more you're willing to step out of your comfort zone, the more opportunities you'll have to connect with people who share your passions," Avgitidis explains.

Moreover, Avgitidis emphasizes the importance of communication skills in modern dating. With the rise of instant messaging and social media, it's become easier than ever to communicate with potential matches. However, this ease can sometimes lead to misunderstandings or miscommunications.

"Effective communication is key to building a strong connection with someone," Avgitidis stresses. "Take the time to listen actively, ask meaningful questions, and be open about your own desires and expectations."

As we welcome the new year, it's clear that dating trends are evolving in response to changing social norms and technological advancements. By embracing authenticity, joining social clubs, and honing our communication skills, singles can increase their chances of finding genuine connections in this ever-changing landscape.

With Avgitidis' expert advice, those searching for love in the new year can take a step towards building meaningful relationships that are grounded in honesty, shared interests, and effective communication.
 
πŸ€” people seem to be getting more serious about dating now πŸ“ˆ they want real connections not just fake profiles πŸ‘€ it's all about being authentic online & taking risks to meet new ppl 🌟
 
idk about all these dating apps πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ people just wanna have fun and meet new ppl, not get caught up in all this curated online stuff πŸ˜’ and i'm glad some matchmakers like avgitidis are talking about being genuine online, cos that's def what people want - real connections not fake profiles πŸ’” but honestly, why do we need apps to find love? can't we just go out there and be ourselves in social clubs or whatever πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ it's all just a bit too much for me πŸ˜…
 
OMG u guys i cant even believe ppl are still tryin to fake it on dating apps πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ like what's the point of bein on there if u r just gonna present a diff persona? its soooo attractive 2 see someone bein genuine & authentic online πŸ‘€ especially wen theyre not just postin pics of themselves lookin all perfect lol

i agree w/ avgitidis dat joinin groups based on ur interests is da way 2 go 🀝 like book clubs, sports teams, hiking groups - thats where u meet ppl who share ur passions & values πŸ’– dont be afraid 2 step outta ur comfort zone & just do it πŸŽ‰

& communication skills r everything πŸ’¬ take time 2 listen actively, ask meaningful questions, & b open about ur own desires n expectations πŸ‘‚ its not that hard πŸ˜‚
 
πŸ“£ just saw that there's been another mass cyber attack on major online dating platforms 🀯 guess what kinda ppl get swiped right on now lol πŸ˜‚ people with the most Instagram followers πŸ’β€β™€οΈ or those who can write the longest bio without using a single emoji 😴 no idea how this is gonna end well
 
πŸ’β€β™€οΈ I mean, come on... who hasn't lied about their life on dating apps at some point? πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ "I'm a fitness enthusiast" when really you're a couch potato 🍿. But seriously, Avgitidis makes some valid points. Being genuine online is key to avoiding catfishing and finding someone who actually shares your passions πŸ”₯. And let's be real, book clubs are the best way to meet people – no awkward coffee dates or loud bars required β˜•οΈ. Communication skills are also super important... like, if you want to know if I'm interested in you, don't just send 10 generic texts πŸ˜‚. Take a chance and have a real conversation πŸ“±πŸ’¬
 
πŸ€” the old saying "be yourself" is really taking on new meaning online πŸ“± people are realizing that it's not just about being true to oneself but also about being authentic in front of others πŸ‘₯ i think this shift towards authenticity will lead to more real connections being made πŸ’• and who knows maybe we'll even see a rise in meaningful relationships πŸ‘«
 
I'm so done with these dating apps 🀯 they're just a highlight reel of what people want to present online, not who they really are. I mean, come on, how many times have you swiped through and thought "oh cool, we both like the same TV show" only to find out in real life that you can't even watch the same genre πŸ“Ί. And don't even get me started on the ghosting 😩 it's just so frustrating when someone is playing hard to get. But at the same time, I get why people want to be authentic online, we're all tired of these fake profiles and games.
 
I'm so down with people taking a more authentic approach to online dating πŸ€—. Like, we've all been there where you match with someone who seems perfect but it's just a bunch of curated pics and generic messages... yawn 😴. It's time for us to stop playing it cool and start being our real selves online πŸ’β€β™€οΈ.

I'm loving the idea of venturing out into social clubs and groups that align with your interests πŸŽ‰. Not only will you meet like-minded people, but you'll also get a chance to have some fun and be yourself outside of the dating app bubble 🌞. And let's not forget about communication skills - it's so easy to get caught up in instant messaging and social media, but sometimes a good ol' fashioned phone call or meetup is what we need πŸ’¬.

I'm all for embracing the changes in modern dating and finding ways to make connections that feel more genuine 🀝. With people like Maria Avgitidis sharing their expertise, I'm hoping we'll see more singles out there being their awesome selves and finding real love ❀️.
 
πŸ€” I'm skeptical about the whole "authenticity" trend, tbh. I think it's just another way to make people feel better about their own inadequacies 😊. We're already so bombarded with curated online profiles and highlight reels that it's hard to know what's real and what's not. Maybe the key is to develop a sense of self-awareness and confidence, rather than relying on others to validate our worth? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
omg u no wats goin on w/ online datin lol 🀣 its like ppl r tryna present thirsels in dis fake way 2 b more attractive 2 others but avgitidis says its not gonna work πŸ˜‚ we need 2 b genuinely ourselves online & off 2. dont be afraid 2 join groups that align w/ ur interests like book clubs or hiking groups πŸ“šπŸžοΈ it can be a great way 2 meet ppl w/ shared passions. also effective communication is key w/ all dis new tech stuff πŸ“±πŸ’¬ its not just bout swipin thru profiles no more, u gotta put in the effort 2 build somethin real πŸ’•
 
I'm loving how people are embracing authenticity on dating apps πŸ™Œ! It's like we're finally getting tired of seeing fake profiles and wanting to connect with real people. I've seen so many friends get stuck on apps for ages because they couldn't find someone who was genuinely interested in them. But it makes sense - when you see a genuine online profile, it's like a breath of fresh air! πŸ’¨ Plus, Avgitidis is right that joining social clubs and groups can be super effective way to meet people with similar interests. I've met some amazing friends through book clubs and hiking groups πŸžοΈπŸ“š It just goes to show that there are plenty of ways to find love beyond online dating apps πŸ‘
 
I think online dating is getting better but still super sketchy πŸ€”πŸ’β€β™€οΈ I mean, people are finally realizing that fake profiles are a major turnoff, but at the same time, it's hard to know who's really legit πŸ’•πŸ‘€ And what's with all these people looking for 'the one' like they're searching for a unicorn πŸ¦„πŸ˜‚? Can't we just focus on having fun and seeing where things go? 😊
 
Ugh I'm so over people trying to find "authenticity" online πŸ™„ Like who needs that? Everyone's gonna present themselves as perfect anyway, it's just a highlight reel on dating apps. And what's wrong with having a little fun pretending to be someone you're not for a bit? It's all about swiping right and hoping for the best! Joining social clubs is cool and all, but sometimes you just wanna meet someone in a dark room at 3am and see if there's chemistry πŸ’ƒ. And don't even get me started on how hard it is to have real conversations online πŸ“±
 
idk why ppl still think online dating is all about swiping through profiles like they're at the mall πŸ›οΈ lol I mean whats wrong with just being urself? ppl r so extra trying to present this perfect image 🀣 anyway if u wanna meet someone real u gotta put urself out there and join a group that aligns w/ ur interests 🏞️ book clubs, hiking groups etc. its not rocket science just be genuine and listen actively to get to know someone πŸ‘‚
 
🀝 I think it's really cool how people are moving away from all the fake stuff online and just being themselves. Like, who wants to swipe through a bunch of curated profiles when you can see someone for real, flaws and all? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ It makes so much more sense to join groups or clubs that align with your interests - you'll meet people who actually get what you're about! πŸ‘₯ And yeah, communication skills are super important too... I mean, we've all been there where we've misinterpreted a message or two (or ten) because of autocorrect πŸ˜‚. But honestly, it's all about being open and honest with each other. Let's hope the new year brings us all some genuine connections! πŸ’•
 
Ugh, dating apps πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ are such a mixed bag! I mean, who hasn't been on one of those super generic "I like long walks on the beach" profiles and thought, "uh, no thanks"? It's like people think the more words you use, the more interesting you'll come across... newsflash: it just makes you sound like a robot πŸ’». And don't even get me started on the selfies πŸ“Έ - who thought it was a good idea to post a photo of your food or your cat? πŸ˜‚. Anyway, I guess Avgitidis has a point about being genuine online... but can't we just be ourselves and not feel like we need to curate this perfect image all the time? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ
 
πŸŽ‰πŸ’• so i think online dating is getting more real πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ people wanna be true 2 themselves n not just post fake pics or write cheesy messages πŸ˜‚ avgitidis makes sense 4 me - joinin groups @ ur interests n talkin openly w/ ppl r key 2 findin genuine connections πŸ’¬ dont get me wrong, online dating's still cool n all, but it's def more effective wen u be authentic 2 urself n others πŸ€—
 
πŸ€” You know what's crazy about online dating? Everyone's always putting on a show 🎭, but nobody wants to put themselves out there in real life πŸ˜‚. I've seen some of my friends try it and they just end up stuck in a conversation loop πŸ”„. Meanwhile, the ones who are genuine and don't overthink it, that's when things start to click πŸ’‘. We should all remember that it's okay to be a little awkward in real life, it's better than faking it online πŸ˜….
 
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