Coached to Kill

A high school softball coach was accused of recruiting one of her former players to commit a murder, sparking outrage and calling into question the coach's character and judgment.

The coach, identified as 41-year-old Briar Shelby, allegedly approached one of her former players, who had been struggling financially and emotionally, and offered to help him pay off his debts in exchange for committing a violent crime. The player, whose name has not been released, eventually carried out the murder, and Shelby was subsequently arrested and charged with conspiracy to commit murder.

Prosecutors say that Shelby's actions were motivated by her desire to cover up her own dark secrets and maintain her reputation as a respected coach. They claim that she used her position of authority to manipulate and control her players, including the one who ultimately committed the crime.

Shelby's defense team argues that she was simply trying to help her player in a difficult situation and had no intention of causing harm. However, many experts say that Shelby's behavior is indicative of a larger problem with youth sports abuse and exploitation, where coaches often wield significant power over their players' lives.

The case has raised questions about the role of coaches in young people's lives and the need for greater accountability and oversight in youth sports. It has also highlighted the devastating consequences of abuse and manipulation in vulnerable populations.

As one expert noted, "When we talk about coaching and mentoring, we often focus on the positive aspects, but there are many darker aspects to this relationship that can have very serious consequences."
 
I'm so messed up by this case 🀯. Like, how could someone use their position of power to manipulate a kid into doing something as violent as murder? It's just sickening. I mean, we always talk about coaches being role models and all that, but what if they're actually predators in disguise? 🚫

And it's not just the coach, it's the whole system that allows this kind of abuse to happen. Like, how many other kids have been taken advantage of by their coaches or trainers? And what about the parents who enable this behavior, thinking their kid is getting a 'great opportunity' when really they're being exploited?

We need to have a serious conversation about accountability and oversight in youth sports. Can't we just say that coaching is all about character development and sportsmanship, but also acknowledge that it can go wrong? πŸ€”
 
Ugh man... I cant believe what's going on with these youth sports coaches 🀯. I remember when I was a kid, our softball coach was always super strict and demanding, but she never did anything shady like this. It makes me so sad to think about all the kids out there who are getting manipulated by these people in power πŸ’”. And what's even crazier is that some of these coaches have gotten away with this stuff for years without anyone saying anything πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ. It's just not right. We need to make sure our youth sports programs are held to a higher standard and that these abusers get the help they so desperately need 🚨.
 
πŸ€• This is so messed up. I cant even imagine what its like for a coach to be in a position of power over one of their players lives and then use it to manipulate them into doing something as heinous as murder. Its not just the player who's affected, but also the other kids on that team who are looking up to this woman as a role model.

I feel like we need to start questioning what its okay to do in order to "help" someone. Just because its your job as a coach doesn't mean you can use that power to exploit someone for personal gain. Its time to hold people in positions of power accountable and make sure they're not using their influence to hurt others.

And yeah, this whole thing is just another example of how the darker side of human nature can be so damaging. We always talk about how coaches are supposed to be role models, but sometimes that means being aware of our own motivations and actions and making sure we're not hurting anyone in the process πŸ˜”
 
😞 This whole thing is just so messed up. I mean, how could she do something like that? Not only was she recruiting someone to commit a heinous crime, but it's also super suspicious that she was trying to help her player out while secretly covering up her own problems... like what kinda dark secrets would require her to resort to this kinda behavior? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ And the fact that she used her position of power to manipulate and control these kids is just heartbreaking. These young people are already struggling with so much, they don't need some adult taking advantage of them like that.

I feel like we really need to be looking into why coaches have this kinda influence over their players' lives. Is it because there's a lack of accountability or oversight? Because it seems like Shelby was able to get away with this for a while before she got caught... which is even more disturbing. πŸ’”
 
Ugh, this is just insane 🀯. Like, what kind of coach tries to manipulate someone into committing murder? I get that it's a dark topic, but come on... and now people are like "oh, coaches need more accountability" yada yada... like, they already do! πŸ˜’ The issue isn't the coaching itself, it's just that some people (like Shelby) can't be trusted with power. It's not about coaching, it's about people's basic human decency πŸ™„. And now we have to deal with the consequences of a system that lets this kind of abuse happen... like, what's the point? 😀
 
🀯 I'm really worried about the state of youth sports right now. It's like, coaches are supposed to be role models and mentors, not exploiters. The fact that Shelby used her position to manipulate and control her player is just sickening 😷. And what's even more alarming is that this might not be an isolated incident - it's clear that there's a bigger problem out there.

I'm all for coaches being supportive and helping their players with personal issues, but not at the cost of sending them down a dark path like this. It just goes to show how easily power can be abused, especially in positions where people have so much influence over young lives πŸ’”. We need to start holding our coaches accountable for their actions and making sure they're doing what's best for their players, not just themselves 🚫.
 
OMG, this is just so disturbing 🀯... I mean, think about it, a coach is supposed to be like a mentor or a role model, right? But in this case, it's like she was more interested in covering up her own dirt than actually helping the kid. And now he's paying the price for life πŸ™... I feel so bad for him and his family. This just goes to show that we need to be way more vigilant when it comes to youth sports and coaching. Can't trust someone who uses their power like this, you know? πŸ’”
 
πŸ€” I'm shocked by this story - a coach allegedly manipulating a player into committing murder? That's just not right. How far does a coach's authority go? Should they be babysitting their players' financial problems too? πŸ€‘ It's like something out of a movie.

I've seen some of the comments saying that coaches are just trying to help, but what if helping means putting someone in harm's way? We need more info on this, though. Who's verifying these claims about Shelby's character? How much evidence do we have? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ Sources, please!
 
Man I'm so done with coaches acting like they're above the law 🀯. It's wild to think that someone in such a position of power could be using their influence for personal gain and manipulation. The fact that Shelby was trying to help her player financially but still ended up pushing them to commit a murder is just insane 😲.

I think we need to take a hard look at the way coaches are vetted and trained, because it's clear that Shelby had some serious red flags 🚨. But even more than that, I think we need to start talking about the power dynamics at play in youth sports. These kids are looking up to their coaches as role models and mentors, but often they're still just a few years older than them πŸ‘₯.

It's not just Shelby's case, either - there have been plenty of other instances of coach abuse and exploitation that have come to light over the years. It's time for us to start taking these allegations seriously and holding coaches accountable πŸ’ͺ.
 
🀯 This whole thing is just mind-blowing... I mean, can you even imagine being in a situation where someone who's supposed to be helping you becomes a threat? It's like, what kind of warped logic does it take for a coach to think that paying off your debts with murder is a good idea?

And the fact that Shelby was trying to cover up her own dark secrets just adds another layer of complexity to this whole situation. I mean, we all know coaches are supposed to be role models and stuff, but it's not like they're invincible or anything.

But what really gets me is how this case highlights the darker side of youth sports abuse and exploitation. Like, we're so quick to praise our favorite athletes and coaches without stopping to think about the impact they have on their players' lives. It's a tough topic to tackle, but I think it's one that needs to be talked about more.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that this whole thing is just a huge reminder that power and authority can be incredibly corrupting, especially when it comes to vulnerable populations like young athletes. We need to make sure we're holding our coaches and leaders accountable for their actions and making sure they're doing what's best for the people under their care. πŸ’”
 
πŸ€• I'm really saddened by this whole situation. As a parent, it's unbearable to think that someone in a position of trust like a coach could take advantage of their power and manipulate a young person into committing a crime. πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ The fact that the coach was trying to cover up her own secrets is just devastating. It makes you wonder how many other cases are going unreported.

I think this case highlights the importance of having more support systems in place for these vulnerable athletes, like counseling services and sports psychologists. 🧠 It's also crucial for parents and schools to be vigilant about warning signs and reporting any suspicious behavior. πŸ”

We need to have a bigger conversation about the accountability and oversight in youth sports. Coaches should be held to higher standards of integrity and ethics. πŸ’― It's not just about winning games, it's about creating safe spaces for young people to grow and thrive.

Let's hope that this case brings about some much-needed change and reform in our youth sports programs 🌟
 
πŸ™„ I'm not surprised by this at all. Coaches always think they're above the law just because they've got a whistle and a baton. Like, hello? You're supposed to be teaching these kids how to play ball, not exploiting them for your own gain. It's like, basic human decency, right? And what really grinds my gears is that she's trying to spin this as her player being the bad guy, when really it's all about Shelby's own selfishness and desire to cover up her own dark secrets. πŸ€₯ I mean, come on, if you're struggling financially, do people really try to help you by manipulating you into committing murder? Give me a break!
 
idk how coaches get away with this stuff πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ, like they're above the law or something. 41 years old and still coaching? what's going on here? it's all about power and control, plain as day πŸ’ͺ. i mean, i've seen some shady stuff in my online browsing history, but this is on another level... 😳. these young kids look up to their coaches like mentors or role models, and then you find out they're just using them for personal gain πŸ€‘. what's the point of even having sports if it's just gonna be about manipulation and abuse? πŸ€”
 
🀯 Can you believe some people think being a coach is all about giving back to your players? Like, no one's born with a silver spoon, I get it, but Briar Shelby took it way too far. Using her power to manipulate someone into committing murder? That's not coaching, that's coercion and abuse of trust. The fact that she was trying to cover up her own dark secrets just makes it worse. We need more checks in place to prevent coaches from taking advantage of their players, especially the ones who are already struggling. It's like, what kind of example is this setting for our youth?
 
I don't know what's more disturbing, the fact that a coach would think it's okay to ask someone to commit murder in exchange for help or the fact that she thought her reputation would be more important than doing the right thing. πŸ€”

Youth sports are supposed to be about developing young people's skills and character, but when coaches start using their power to manipulate and control players, something is seriously wrong. And now we're hearing stories like this where kids are being exploited for the coach's own gain. 😬

I'm not saying that all coaches are bad or that this kind of thing never happens, but it's just so sad when you think about a kid who's already struggling and then they get pulled into something like this. We need to be holding our coaches accountable and making sure that we're protecting these young people, not exploiting them. 🚫
 
Ugh this is crazy! 41-year-old Briar Shelby is just a prime example of how some people think they're above the law just because they're in a position of power. I mean, what kind of coach tries to pay off someone's debts for a murder? That's just sickening. And now she's using her "helping" excuse to cover up her own dark secrets? Give me a break! πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ

And can we talk about the system failing here? I mean, how did this guy even get to that point where he was willing to commit murder? Was it because of Shelby's coaching or because he was struggling on his own? We need to be asking those questions and holding our coaches accountable for their actions. This is not just about one person's mistakes, it's about a culture of abuse and exploitation in youth sports.

I'm all for giving people second chances, but when it comes to something as serious as this, you have to take a hard look at what happened and make sure it doesn't happen again. We need to be supporting our young athletes, not manipulating them into doing terrible things. πŸ’”
 
🌟 This case is just so heartbreaking πŸ€•. It's like a nightmare come true - an innocent kid being manipulated into committing a heinous crime by someone who was supposed to be guiding them towards their dreams πŸ’”. I mean, what kind of sick person does that? 😩 And the fact that this coach was trying to cover up her own dark secrets just makes it even more disturbing 🀯.

But you know what really gets me is how common this stuff is πŸ™…β€β™€οΈ. There are so many cases out there where coaches and authority figures have been abusing their power and exploiting young people's trust πŸ’”. It's like, we need to take a closer look at our youth sports programs and make sure they're not just focusing on winning, but also on the well-being of these kids πŸ†.

We need to create a culture where coaches are held accountable for their actions and where kids feel safe and supported πŸ’ͺ. Because when that happens, we can start to build trust again 🌈. It's time for us to shine a light on this issue and make some real change πŸ”¦.
 
I mean, can you even imagine a scenario where a coach is more concerned with their own dark secrets than the well-being of their players? It's like, what kind of power trip does someone need to think they can control another human being like that? 🀯 And then when it all falls apart, the coach tries to spin it as if they were just trying to help? No, no, no. That's not how manipulation works. This case is a total wake-up call for the youth sports community, and I think we need to take a hard look at the accountability measures in place to prevent situations like this from happening again. The fact that there are so many gray areas when it comes to coaching and player relationships just highlights how much more work we need to do to protect our young people πŸ’”
 
Can you believe this?! 🀯 A coach is supposed to be a role model and mentor, not some kinda manipulative psycho! How could she think it's okay to use her power to control someone like that? It's just disgusting. And what really gets me is that the prosecutors are saying she was trying to cover up her own dark secrets... like what exactly?! Is there more to this story than we know? πŸ€” I mean, I get that coaches can be a big influence on kids lives, but this level of abuse is just sickening. We need to make sure our youth sports programs are held accountable for this kind of thing! πŸ’ͺ
 
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