Metro Bank's credit file markers are adding to the pain of our son's death

Family Left Struggling After Tragedy as Credit File Markers Make Rebuilding Impossible

A bereaved family's life has been turned upside down by the harsh reality of credit file markers, which have made it impossible for them to remortgage their home just nine months after losing their 19-year-old son.

In a heart-wrenching tale, the family had managed to stay on top of mortgage payments until February and March, when they fell behind due to stress. Despite this, they've been making timely payments ever since April. However, when they applied for remortgage with Nationwide, the bank refused their application citing Metro Bank's late payment markers on their credit file.

These markers, added by Metro after missed mortgage payments in February and March, have made it impossible for the family to secure a new mortgage deal. The family explained that their son had been struggling with mental health issues, resulting in repeated hospitalizations and sectioning, which had left them with little time or energy to manage daily life.

As they've tried to rebuild their lives, they've faced not only grief but also the daunting task of dealing with credit file markers. In an attempt to resolve the issue, Metro Bank agreed to remove the markers as a goodwill gesture, only for Nationwide to reject their application due to doubts over their ability to repay the mortgage.

It's a stark reminder that credit reports can have far-reaching consequences, even in extraordinary circumstances. The family is now left with no choice but to wait until their finances recover before attempting another mortgage application – a difficult prospect given their recent loss.

Their story serves as a warning to others who may be struggling with financial hardship: don't hesitate to speak to your bank about your personal circumstances, and explore available support options to avoid such bleak outcomes.
 
OMG, this is so sad πŸ€•. I mean, I get it that credit reports can be tricky but like, come on! The family has been paying their mortgage payments on time since April, and yet Nationwide is still refusing them a new deal? It's just not fair πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ.

And what really gets me is that Metro Bank agreed to remove the markers as a goodwill gesture, which shows they're willing to listen and help. But then Nationwide screws it up by rejecting their application because of those markers 😑. I mean, can't they just work together or something? πŸ€”

It's not like this family is asking for much, they just want to rebuild their lives and move forward. But with credit reports and bank stuff getting in the way, it's hard to see a light at the end of the tunnel 🌫️. Anyway, I hope they get everything sorted out soon and can start fresh πŸ’ͺ.
 
I feel so bad for this family... πŸ€• They've already been through so much losing their son, and now they're struggling to rebuild their lives due to something that's not even their fault - these credit file markers. It's like the bank is making it impossible for them to move on from their grief.

And can you believe Metro Bank agreed to remove the markers as a goodwill gesture, only to have Nationwide reject the family's application anyway? πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ It just shows that these things are often beyond our control and can have huge consequences. I think banks need to do more to help people in these situations.

I'm all for transparency when it comes to credit reports, but sometimes you've got to take a step back and consider the human impact of these decisions. This family's story is a reminder that we need to be kinder and more understanding towards those who are struggling. πŸ’–
 
πŸ€‘ I feel for the family, but gotta say, it's kinda harsh that Nationwide is relying on Metro Bank's late payment markers from like 2 years ago to deny their remortgage application. Don't get me wrong, being behind on mortgage payments is no joke, but a 19-year-old passing away should be enough to get some serious consideration πŸ€•.

It's also super frustrating that they're having to wait until their finances recover before trying again - it feels like a never-ending cycle πŸ’Έ. I think banks need to take a more nuanced approach when evaluating mortgage applications, especially for families who've been through traumatic events πŸ˜”.
 
Ugh, this is just heartbreaking πŸ€•. I mean, you'd think that after losing a loved one, the last thing they'd have to worry about is their credit score. But apparently, in today's world, even grief can be complicated by financial stuff πŸ’Έ. It's like, what's the point of having a good credit score if it's just gonna hold you back from moving on? πŸ€·β€β™€οΈ And Nationwide being so harsh with the rejection, I mean, can't they just have some compassion? 🀝
 
πŸ€• ugh I feel so bad for this family it's like they've been through enough already losing their son is never easy but the fact that credit file markers are causing them more stress is just heartbreaking what kind of system is this? 🚫 how can a bank refuse someone a mortgage deal because of some late payments from months ago? shouldn't we be supporting people in their time of need not adding to their stress? πŸ’Έ
 
can u believe its still like this in 2025?? 😩 credit companies r more concerned w/ their profits than people's lives. what kinda system is this? they just make it harder for ppl to rebuild after a tragedy like losing a child. and metro bank thinkin it's okay 2 mark someone's credit file cuz they had some bad months? that's not fair. i mean, i get it ppl have to pay bills but can't u offer some support or something? and nationwide is just as bad, didnt even care about the goodwill gesture from metro. total fail πŸ€¦β€β™‚οΈ
 
πŸ˜”πŸ’Έ This is just heartbreaking πŸ€•. I cant even imagine how hard it must be for this family 😩. They've already lost a loved one πŸ’€ and now they're struggling with credit issues πŸ“‰. It's not fair that these credit file markers are making it impossible for them to remortgage their home πŸ‘‹.

It's like, okay, we get it, you made some mistakes in the past πŸ™ˆ, but now can't you just give them a break? πŸ€—πŸ˜Œ They're doing their best to rebuild their lives, but this credit stuff is just weighing them down πŸ’”. And Nationwide is being super harsh πŸ‘€.

I wish they could just get some help 🀝 and support 🌟. This family needs it more than ever ❀️. Credit reports should be there to help people not hurt them πŸ™…β€β™‚οΈ. Let's all just take a moment to feel for this family πŸ˜”.
 
😱 this is mental, can't imagine being in their shoes, been there too when I lost my grandma and had to deal with all that red tape πŸ“¨πŸ’Έ, it's like they're being penalised for something beyond their control, mental health issues aren't something you can just "get over" πŸ€•, what's wrong with Nationwide giving them a second chance? πŸ€·β€β™‚οΈ should be helping people rebuild rather than adding more stress 🚨
 
I feel so bad for this family πŸ€• they've already lost a kid, can you imagine? And now they're struggling even more because of credit file markers πŸ“ˆ it's like Nationwide doesn't care that their situation is super tough. I mean, come on, if Metro Bank added those markers after the fact, shouldn't Nationwide have checked for all the details before rejecting them? πŸ€” Their story highlights how serious credit reports can be – even when life is already crazy. I wish they'd get a second chance to remortgage and rebuild their lives πŸ’ͺ
 
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